You are missed


#1395

The funniest lady on here when I first joined in September!


#1396

Things are good, although I am currently getting back to day 1. It’s been a bit tougher than I had anticipated this time around.

I’ve been in a bit of a “funk” the past few weeks, and it’s been affecting everything. I went to a meeting today, though, and it was nice to get to talk to a few people, outside of my normal circle.


#1397

Maybe your break up is behind your funk. I’m happy you haven’t given up. I haven’t been around since mid October. Back again, day 3🙄


#1398

Well, we got back together, and it’s been better than before… outside of my being down. We we’re talking and it just kind of came out that I’ve felt kind of lost since losing my best friend a few years ago, in a single car drunk driving accident.

So, I haven’t had “that person” to talk to, confide in, etc. for a while. I also finally realized while talking with her, that while I may have a lot of “friends”, I don’t really know any of them, outside of seeing them at shows, or bars…and that was eye opening, and really sad at the same time.

Long post…sorry. Just got a lot on my mind, as I’m learning a few things about some possible repressed emotions and what not.


#1399

I’m happy you are back together😊
Sorry about your friend, that’s tough😔 real close friends are a rarity the older we get. It’s good that these feelings are coming to the surface so you can deal with them though. Let your gf be your friend too, I know it isn’t the same thing but you have more than some people rn. Stay strong and onto the next sober day💪


#1400

Yeah, it was nice to chat with her briefly a couple days ago. Really happy that she’ll have her place soon. God I love her :blush:


#1401

@Joanie! :smile: :heart: Welcome back!


#1402

Glad to hear you’re sorting through some stuff, although it may be difficult to do. Its the healthy approach to seek to address the unresolved. Good work hitting a meeting, too.

You can get through this funk, I know you can and will – it’ll pass, just like anything. Just remember that drinking will slow or outright stop your progress through it. Stick to your guns, and you’ll get back to where you were. I am here if you ever need to reach out, any time.


#1403

waving Hi! Yes, I’m back😊


#1404

Still miss you and your pictures of your dogs! :heart_eyes:How are you guys settling in? Been thinking of you!


#1405

It’s a struggle. But I’m not throwing in the towel.


#1406

@Cobaltchris. Where you at??


#1407

@Mkm my sober twin where art thou Mika? Hope you get in touch with us soon


#1408

@Sophiesrecovery


#1409

Just keep answering the bell. Mouthpiece in. Chin tucked. Take control of the center of the ring, and press your adversary. Cut the angles. Slip, bob, weave, punch and counter-punch.


#1410

Haven’t seen @Sober_Ninja around, hope she’s still soaring with the eagles


#1411

Others have called for her already, and I’d like to do the same – @Becsta, hope you are well. Check in soon :slight_smile:


#1412

She’s just staying busy with everything. I’ve talked to her


#1413

@wonwo - hope you are out there being fabulous and fighting the good fight. Miss you!


#1414

Still missing @BondJaneBond