Personally I assume the best. I think of them out there practicing what we talk about on here and flourishing. On occasion they’re pinged here and hopefully come back just to say hello.
Meanwhile I try to practice the things I’ve learned from them myself.
As others have said, often it’s for their better one way or the other. I’m generally more concerned if I know this is someone’s main source of sober fellowship. (Isolating is a warning sign for my own sobriety.) And sometimes I just miss folks and wonder how they’re doing.
Yes, this!!! And the sad fact is that if they fall off the wagon & disappear, we may never hear from them in this lifetime again or ever know what happened. That’s the part I find hardest.
Haha I’m alright, just felt this wasn’t the best platform to talk about my struggles when they aren’t what this sites about ^^. It touches me you still remember me after all this time
I sure do! We all fight our own battles here, in many ways they are often very similar even if they are a bit different. We may not have all the answers but come by anytime! We can still still battle together.
I have a “mommy group” on line. People think I’m bonkers for planning trips around meeting them. Some I’m meeting for the first time after 16 years in just a few weeks. I can’t wait.