# \#boundaries **URL:** https://talkingsober.com/tag/boundaries/73.md [Latest](https://talkingsober.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://talkingsober.com/categories.md) · [Tags](https://talkingsober.com/tags.md) --- ## [Setting Healthy Boundaries + Sharing Our Boundaries](https://talkingsober.com/t/setting-healthy-boundaries-sharing-our-boundaries/139586)
**Author:** [@Chikai](https://talkingsober.com/u/Chikai)\ **Replies:** 13\ **Last updated:** [January 23, 2025, 2:48pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/setting-healthy-boundaries-sharing-our-boundaries/139586 "2025-01-23T14:48:20Z")
Setting Healthy Boundaries “HEALTHY BOUNDARIES allow you to: Have high self-esteem and self-respect . Share personal information gradually, in a mutually sharing and trusting relationship. Protect physical and emotiona… --- ## [The Boundary I Set Today](https://talkingsober.com/t/the-boundary-i-set-today/173259)
**Author:** [@FreeingFalkor](https://talkingsober.com/u/FreeingFalkor)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2023, 2:05am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/the-boundary-i-set-today/173259 "2023-10-29T02:05:36Z")
For the first time in four years I was able to set a boundary with the man I love. After three and a half weeks of being missing, he called me, begging me to take him to use. Promising me it would be the last time (agai… --- ## [Cutting people out - yay or nay?](https://talkingsober.com/t/cutting-people-out-yay-or-nay/153223)
**Author:** [@clawdia](https://talkingsober.com/u/clawdia)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [October 20, 2022, 3:41pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/cutting-people-out-yay-or-nay/153223 "2022-10-20T15:41:49Z")
Hi y’all :slight\_smile: Over 2 years sober from alcohol / drugs - And I am not as close with a lot of friends after becoming sober, for a number of reasons. Of course, I know this is normal! Happens to a lot of us, esp… --- ## [Why I Quit (Amends Question)](https://talkingsober.com/t/why-i-quit-amends-question/96533)
**Author:** [@Asenath](https://talkingsober.com/u/Asenath)\ **Replies:** 53\ **Last updated:** [August 20, 2020, 6:33pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/why-i-quit-amends-question/96533 "2020-08-20T18:33:45Z")
Just wanted to vent about what led up to me quitting alcohol. I’m sure I’m not alone in this scenario. A guy I was dating since October of 2019 (flirting since August), I was really into him and was hoping he was going t… --- ## [Triggered as fuck by family members not coping](https://talkingsober.com/t/triggered-as-fuck-by-family-members-not-coping/88038)
**Author:** [@Faugxh](https://talkingsober.com/u/Faugxh)\ **Replies:** 31\ **Last updated:** [May 22, 2020, 9:56am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/triggered-as-fuck-by-family-members-not-coping/88038 "2020-05-22T09:56:49Z")
Hi all, I’ve got another one of my lengthy questions today. My dad is 58 years old. He looks like he’s 70. He’s been home the last two years from a job he hated for many years but never quit/changed, first with a physica… --- ## [Boundaries stories](https://talkingsober.com/t/boundaries-stories/89094)
**Author:** [@Faugxh](https://talkingsober.com/u/Faugxh)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [May 19, 2020, 11:18am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/boundaries-stories/89094 "2020-05-19T11:18:21Z")
Folks, I’ve had a wonderful experience just now. Met up with a few friends (rules have been relaxed a bit over here), had a nice enough time for a few hours but was pressured very much by one friend to go on after a few … --- ## [Trying to resist during a hard time](https://talkingsober.com/t/trying-to-resist-during-a-hard-time/86763)
**Author:** [@quietly](https://talkingsober.com/u/quietly)\ **Replies:** 10\ **Last updated:** [April 13, 2020, 5:41pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/trying-to-resist-during-a-hard-time/86763 "2020-04-13T17:41:01Z")
So I do some freelance sort of work. I’m the kind of person who doesn’t like to turn anyone down, I don’t want to make anyone sad. But one of my clients has really been taking advantage of me— it’s borderline abusive. I …