# \#seeking-help

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## [In need of support. Don't know what to do anymore](https://talkingsober.com/t/in-need-of-support-dont-know-what-to-do-anymore/208965)

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**Author:** [@Sweetgrean](https://talkingsober.com/u/Sweetgrean)\
**Replies:** 8\
**Last updated:** [July 18, 2026, 2:06pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/in-need-of-support-dont-know-what-to-do-anymore/208965 "2026-07-18T14:06:26Z")

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I have relapse I don’t know how many times in the last few months. It doesn’t help that my partner is using aswell. I feel ashamed and pathetic. Like I can’t keep my like together. I feel like I want to disappear.

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## [I am seeking help](https://talkingsober.com/t/i-am-seeking-help/206324)

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**Author:** [@migraineboy1](https://talkingsober.com/u/migraineboy1)\
**Replies:** 8\
**Last updated:** [April 6, 2026, 8:54am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/i-am-seeking-help/206324 "2026-04-06T08:54:52Z")

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I’m not sober yet, but I really want to be, but I’m alone in a diferent country where drugs are prioraty and easier to get than food probably, and my adiction is kicking my a\*\*, i truly wan’t to get sober and truly want …

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## [Being sober with BPD advice](https://talkingsober.com/t/being-sober-with-bpd-advice/197340)

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**Author:** [@Skunkspider](https://talkingsober.com/u/Skunkspider)\
**Replies:** 7\
**Last updated:** [August 2, 2025, 10:29pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/being-sober-with-bpd-advice/197340 "2025-08-02T22:29:09Z")

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Hi I have BPD and will be sober from the end of August after an inpatient detox. I’m from the UK and under 25. My question is how to manage BPD symptoms like agitation without alcohol. I started drinking much more beca…

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## [Expansion of the Seeking Help category](https://talkingsober.com/t/expansion-of-the-seeking-help-category/166452)

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**Author:** [@SassyRocks](https://talkingsober.com/u/SassyRocks)\
**Replies:** 19\
**Last updated:** [December 6, 2024, 1:07pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/expansion-of-the-seeking-help-category/166452 "2024-12-06T13:07:38Z")

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Seeking Help is an opt-in category for a variety of topics that may be triggering on the main forum. Moving forward, Seeking Help is not only for those posting under the influence (which can trigger someone in substance…

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## [Struggles with Weed & SH](https://talkingsober.com/t/struggles-with-weed-sh/180063)

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**Author:** [@koriiqvq](https://talkingsober.com/u/koriiqvq)\
**Replies:** 4\
**Last updated:** [March 14, 2024, 7:10am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/struggles-with-weed-sh/180063 "2024-03-14T07:10:22Z")

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Ive been smoking for about half a year, its been my escape from sh multiple times and im struggling really badly. I’m trying to fight my urges but its getting tougher. Ive recently had an issue w my friend and its given…

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## [Please help me I’m about to cave](https://talkingsober.com/t/please-help-me-i-m-about-to-cave/175438)

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**Author:** [@Smootie8220](https://talkingsober.com/u/Smootie8220)\
**Replies:** 55\
**Last updated:** [December 8, 2023, 9:42pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/please-help-me-i-m-about-to-cave/175438 "2023-12-08T21:42:18Z")

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I am soooo close to having a drink I’m at a company dinner and people are drinking and I’m only on day 5. I can’t just get up and leave because my work doesn’t know what I’m going through and I don’t want them too. Idk w…