I’m trying to stay pumped 
last night my bff came over with beers and put them in cups while I wasnt looking so I wouldn’t be tempted. I was a little annoyed. But she chose 8/1 to be her first sober day. And this morning she said shes officially on this journey with me. I’m excited to go thru this with her. My boyfriend is being super supportive. Not condescending at all and super loving. I think I can actually do this guys! I’m so done with ulcers and waking up to being told what an irrational bitch I was last night when I was blacked out. I’m tired of bottles everywhere in my house. This is it. I have the resources. I have the support group necessary. Time to finally be proactive and grow the fuck up.
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Day 3 has always been the hardest for me, and I know you can do this. I’m on day 7 right now. It’s been over 10 years since I’ve gone so long. I also have understanding friends who are so supportive. I’ve not socialized as much in the past week, just to keep the temptation at a lower level, but I did have 1 friend over who brought her own can of wine (???) for herself and my boyfriend was drinking beer the other night, but it was and beer that I hate, so it didn’t sting so much. I have my brother’'s birthday, and my sister’s wedding in the next few weeks. Those will be some serious hurdles. But I feel like now that I’m this far, the thought of resetting my day counter upsets me more than having to toast w/ carbonated grapejuice. The satisfaction of seeing those numbers tick by is one of my favorite things.
Go you!
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You’re damn right you can! You got this!
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Keep up the positive action. Be proud of your sobriety, it’s yours and no one can take it from you.
It’s not just about growing up, but growing towards something. Be the change, one day at a time.
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You will do awesome at your brothers birthday and the wedding! I was supposed to go to a marketing mixer as my dads guest to promote my business tonight. I got all made-up and ironed my best professional outfit. I called 30 minutes before I was supposed to leave and he apologized that he’d forgotten to tell me he was feeling crappy all day and wouldn’t make it out. When I got off the phone I was so relieved because I want to get my accomplishment badge tomorrow. I am pretty sure I’d end up drinking at least a couple drinks to loosen up. Blessing in disguise. I dont know if I’d be able to go to a party or anything until at least a week.
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Yah!!! Thanks so much
Avoiding social situations in early sobriety is a good idea, generally. There is no reason to push yourself into situations before you are really ready. I don’t think I started making public appearances until around 2.5 months into sobriety.
Congratulations on 3 days! It will get easier eventually. Just take it one day at a time. 
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I’m on day 3 as well, seems like the worst day because the anxiety starts kicking in but just gotta know on the other side of a small bump there is a better life!
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You will love it on this side! I never knew how great vibrant easy life can without drugs and booze! I’m mean of course life still happens but it’s never as hard as when I was drinking.
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