Dealing with extreme emotions while sober it’s definitely not easy, so I can’t imagine how difficult it must be about your past relationships being still so present at your life at the moment, stay strong because you will overcome everything!
I’m also having loneliness issues, even if surrounded by tons of people at work, or some friends I used to hang out being around, I’m finding it really hard to make real connections, buy hey it’s a work in progress! 
This is the journey I wish to take and wish it was easier, also wish the same for you.
I am finding being here really amazing as far as support or just reading.
Also here if you wish to vent some more.
Loving your cat pics!!!
They make the greatest company!!!
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Thank you all for replying,
I’m find just typing it out helps in some ways but knowing I’m not completely mad is a reassurance for me.
The relationship in my face is a bit much, and for her to manipulate her new partner to call me certainly allowed me to realise how much she disrespected me in the time we were together.
Still I am disappointed however it just means I was right and my overthinking was also on point.
Thank you for all your support and always look for a new friend 
so if I can return the favour or just be there I’m happy to do so for any and all
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It is time for you to keep all that negativity away.
I mean the partner calling you does nothing for you as far getting better, which you already are, and you do not need this moving forward.
Already your words tell me you are ready to be over with all of it as you have clearly seen a lot of red flags everywhere, and that is a lot of learning and instrospection involved to get there.
Remember that you are first, put yourself first because this sober time journey is for you only, and try to stay away from any triggering situation.
Whoever is not adding up to you being your true self you shouldn’t care about.
Always look for the people that bring you joy, hoping they will come for me as well.
Let’s stay strong together
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Tried to dm you yet something went wrong, also now as I’m trying to type this response! Weird
All I wanted to say is that if you need a buddy I’m here, I am tired of saying how lonely I feel and then do nothing about it.
Let’s rant about our every day struggles or just keep positive levels up!
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