So last night me and my wife moved out of the rooming house due to unreasonable secumstances
We are living in a motel and honestly I feel scared
We felt unsafe at the rooming house.
I hope I get a apartment asap just so I can feel peace again
I’m looking for work and my mom specificly is helping us out until then
I’m trying to be brave for my wife but I’m scared. This is the 1st time this happened. I wish I lived with my dad but for some reason he isn’t making that a obvious solution
Hey, on no that sounds super stressful. Are there any outward reasons why you feel unsave now at the motel? If so, you could identify and try and address them.
If its more the feeling but you know that nothing can happen to you guys rn, you can address the feeling. Feel it, give it weight, then calm yourself and reassure yourself that you’re ok!
Have you asked your dad for assistance? Maybe he’s not aware?
I have asked my dad if I will ever be homeless and he said no but there’s things that can happen that will be very scary for me. For instance going to a phyc ward until I find a home and if that happens where will my wife go
I guess it’s just a feeling of being scared. If everyone sticks to the plan then we will be ok but if someone gives up then it’ll fall to pieces
I feel safe here
I didn’t feel safe at the rooming house for reasons I’m not going to say. People can be cruel.
So I guess there isn’t much for me to worry about right now. Just my thoughts and feelings
I’m trying not to be upset.
My dad always made me a independent person but doing that I feel I was delt unfair cards. My siblings got cars and boyfriends or girlfriends living with him but I have had non of that. I just don’t get it
Change can be scary. Being in the unknown can be scary. But i like that ur taking it odaat like anything else. Sounds like alot is happening for you and ur wife. Is the motel safer than the rooming house? I remember back in the day i used to live at a rooming house and they arent safe at all for a variery of reasons. Id hope the motel is much better
From what i just read in ur last comment, it sounds liek the rooming house is now place for u to be. This may actually be a good thing that ur away from there. Like i said, change can be scary, but it can also be good!
