Advice if any?

Life has been really weird lately like so weird and while I’m keeping my head up and doing my best I’m clueless as to why my situation is what it is
I got evicted, lost a car(s) (2) this year and having a job has not worked out this year so I’m just curious what does all this mean? Or am i missing something? Should I just be careful for things I do have?!

1 year clean and i feel like my life is crumbling rn🙃

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It seems like a lot. Do not give up on yourself.

I am not sure why all of this is happening but do know it would be so much harder to face and handle if you were drinking.
Over a year sober is impressive - keep fighting for your sober life. I do hope everything gets easier for you very soon.

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Hmmmm…that is odd. Have you noticed other parts of your life have improved? Generally speaking, one’s life will get better w/o addiction(s)…or at least not get worse.

However, life happens sober or not. So things will take place of which we have no control over. So “weird” and challenging things are happening to you…but are you suggesting this wouldn’t be the case if you weren’t sober?

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Definitely not if i were drinking i think it would be so much worse I am grateful I have a roof over my head currently but it just seems like the thing’s I have no control over are just awful!

My love life has improved ,my confidence is better and I can speak to anyone without the jitters so little thing’s and i started writing poetry again so those thing’s are better

Thank you for that :brown_heart: I am hoping it’ll get better with time :brown_heart:

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Just checking in on you love - - how are you doing today?

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Well thank you for checking in and I’m doing okay I have been job hunting and doing my best to not stress over much but I’m still sober,I have a place to lay my head everyday,
I do feel like I’m starting @ 27 but I’m hopeful

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Wishing you loads of luck with the job hunt! Stay hopeful my friend - that is what keeps us going.

Grateful that you are taking on life’s lifey bs with a clear mind. :heart:

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Thank you friend 🫶🏿I can do this !!!