Breaking Free: A Journey from Addiction to Hope

Hi, my name is Bex, and I’ve been an alcohol addict for over a decade. My addiction started back in college, where I first turned to alcohol as a way to unwind and cope with stress. But over time, it took control, dragging me down a path filled with setbacks, missed opportunities, and regrets. I began to miss classes, failed exams, and even dropped out more than once. What should have been a four-year journey stretched into 13 years, all because I couldn’t break free from my reliance on alcohol.

As I finally moved forward after graduation, I was grateful to find several jobs. But alcohol was still part of my life, and it affected everything. There were jobs I couldn’t keep because my drinking led to absences and poor performance. And even when I managed to hold onto some roles, my workplace relationships suffered. My interactions weren’t healthy; I’d often find myself in conflicts, struggling to maintain professional connections. It wasn’t just work—my family had to watch me repeat the same cycles, and I knew I was disappointing them with every relapse.

Then, something life-changing happened—I landed my dream job. It felt like everything I had worked for was finally within reach, but I knew it could all slip away if I didn’t make a change. That’s when I made a commitment to myself: I would quit drinking and take control of my life. It’s been 11 days since I made that decision, and although the journey is still new and challenging, I feel hopeful. For the first time, I’m starting to experience life without alcohol weighing me down.

To everyone out there struggling with addiction of any kind, I want you to know that I understand. I know how hard it can be to break free, but every day without it is a small victory, a step toward the life you deserve. It’s never too late to turn things around. I believe that we all have the strength to overcome, and I’m here, walking this path with you, one day at a time.

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Congratulations on your dream job! :partying_face:
I think that it’s incredible that the switch flipped on for what you needed to do.

Welcome to your new and improved life without the poison.

You can do this and you can continue to help inspire others as well. :muscle:

Keep it up! And keep us posted about your new job adventure as well as your sobriety journey. :black_heart:

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Such a great post and positive story, @iBex, thanks for sharing and good luck with the new job! :muscle:

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How are you? How you’re new job going?

Self-reflection and being honest to yourself is crucial, keep it up and continue on your sobriety journey :clap: Do you happen to have any kind of sources to learn from about this horrible disease - addiction ?

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I just learn from testimonies of other people who happened to face same story like me and get motivation from there.

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It does help to know we not alone and gather strength from it. It has been a life saver for me. I’m happy to say I’m 40days sober today with help of this community and I’m not just saying that. By reading around and taking in the help suggestion by people that have travel down that same road before me. I haven’t been to a AA meeting, yet.
Taken it one day at time, one urge at time, does help, well it has for me. My goal for today is get my head to my pillow sober tonight.

Wish you the best in your journey

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I’m doing well, thank you! The new job has been a big motivation in my journey to sober up. It’s given me a fresh start and a new sense of purpose, and I’m determined to make the most of it. There’s a lot to learn and adjust to, but I feel clear-headed and focused, which makes a huge difference. Each day on the job reinforces my commitment to staying sober and building the future I’ve been working toward. It’s challenging but rewarding, and I’m grateful for

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I’m glad to hear that! :smiley: yes, it not always easy but it the journey is so much better sober. I sure don’t miss the daily hangover.

Glad you’re here!

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Neither do I :grinning:… those hangover days, no no and no!!!