Welcome to TS 
Trust is built on action over time, doing recovery work, showing that you are serious about it.
What your wife will do or not do is out of your control. Focus on yourself, do the work, the rest will unfold.
You have to be sober for yourself, as you see trying it for others doesn’t work.
Read through ressources for recovery, get help, learn about addiction, built up a toolbox to deal with life, join a program. No shortcuts, no easy way, recovery is daily work, staying sober is easy: don’t pick up the first drink.
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