Thanks so much for the words of wisdom…I’m really learning not to complicate things and do exactly that, just take it a day at a time. It really is the best mindset to have. Best of luck on your continued journey!
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Checking in on day 20 sober, happy Saturday evening! Just enjoying some college football and im happy to know ill be waking up to a hangover free Sunday tomorrow 
God bless
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Day 857
Y’all my friend date went soooo gooood!! 
She has a big piece of property we snowshoed around 3 times before her husband woke up and came out with their dog. We all hung out chatting through the afternoon, snacking, snuggling cats, and listening to music. It was very nice. A bit exhausting emotionally so it’s early to bed for me.
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Checking in on day 540. I just realized that if I make it to the end of the month, 2022 will be my first full year without a drop of alcohol. That gives me a feeling that makes me smile.
It was a very cold day. We went to a Christmas market. I enjoyed sitting by the fire pits. Of course there was quite a bit of booze around, and that’s where I would have been years ago, chasing oblivion. Grateful for a clear and sober head on my pillow tonight. I hope everyone is having a nice weekend.
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Is there a current saturday thread?
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What is this? I’ve never heard of it, and Google just showed kids sitting on a Santa lap…?
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Same here, man. Crazy. We’re gonna make it to 2023.
Happy holidays to you.
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Checking in day 5!
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This is a Christmas market in Germany for example where most importantly you can drink Glühwein (warm sweet wine), eat all kind of things and buy all kind of Christmas decorations or presents.
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Haha I honestly still thought it was 53 and then surprised myself when I went back to my homepage 
every day is super important when you’re kicking ass like we are! 
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Thank you Misokatsu…
He stared the intimacy thing, but anyway.
It is what it is. 2 ships passing by (this picture helped me a lot tonight).
What do I want?
Sobriety from alcohol.
Sobriety from hot.cold relationships
A calm relationship with someone each emotional and physical available. Someone being settled and able to give me free space if I need it.
What do you think you have learned about yourself?
There were some red flags and I tinted them in softrose clouds. I have to be taffer and not hang on something that’s not proceeding.
I dived in that dependency to be liked by another person much too much again.
Let’s get back to create a good life at my own side first.
Thank you for making me think from another point of view!
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Hey all, checking in on day 903. I hope everybody has a good one!
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Have as good a day as you all can friends. Sober and clean. Love
(The Christmas Market that is, not the town) I walked down that square earlier this year with Tomek. Interesting DDR architecture and art at the far end.
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Let me think. This is under ‘Denkmalschutz’ 
tres pittoresque. 
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Day 10 (will officially be double digits later today). Really thankful to have woken up without a migraine! I still have a slight headache but nothing horrible. I’m going to try to make myself get out of the house today to go walk and then do some Christmas shopping. My anxiety make it really hard to get out and be around a lot of people. The walk will at least be somewhere peaceful. I’m starting to stress about the holidays. I still haven’t talked to my family about being sober and why. I’m scared to have that conversation. I saw how my sister was so judgmental when my dad was struggling with alcohol. Can’t deal with that. I think I might be able to talk to my other sister about it. Just not sure.
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Hi, great job on your days. You’re doing so well. Glad the headache has subsided a bit today. Getting out for a walk sounds like a good plan. Happy shopping 
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Checking in day 91! Feeling proud I have officially completely 90 days and nights of sobriety. Now that I’m over that hump, my plan is to start focusing more on my diet to eat in ways that make my body feel good. I’m off work today so I’m going to go grocery shopping, head to the gym, and maybe buy myself a little 90 day gift. Hope everyone has the best sober Sunday!
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Wow! That is a lot of shops! Does it stay year round or only Christmas time? It’s really pretty
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Holy cow. Luckily not it used to be only there and maybe another place but in the last years it creeped everywhere meaning you can hardly cross the town without being stuck in the crowd.
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Finally got my one month sober back
30 days sober !!! Yesss
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