Closed - Checking in daily to help maintain focus #5

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Thanks so much @Bomdhil, @Rob68, and @Conor689908! Iā€™ll be sure to check in if I feel week. I hate when these thoughts creep in. This is my 2nd sober Christmas , but last year I had a husband and my kids. Iā€™m just lonely, sigh.

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Day 59. No matter what temptations the festivities bring today i will not drink, tonight i will put a sober head on my pillow.

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Day 174

Hectic, madness and mayhem but itā€™s all good as Iā€™m still fresh and pain popping pill free!

Yoga, meditation and breathing exercises fitted in where and when possible

Soak up as much family time as possible. Hard as its been this yearā€¦ Lā¤ļøVEā€¦ its the best pick me up to see me through it all, better than any drug, drink or high ever!

Keep on trucking peeps, Merry Christmas and all the best from Liverpool! :christmas_tree::santa::v::heart:

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Mine was 4 too, then I winked ones and he was 19!! :joy: Maybe stop feeding yours? :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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Day 23, trying to make it through today without drinking. My MIL is still staying with us (itā€™s been a month so far) and it just makes me so uncomfortable. Shes a super healthy eater and doesnā€™t like it if we get pizza, like we did last night. I wanted wine so much while waiting for the pizza. She is unkind to my daughter and makes rude remarks which puts me into mama bear mode. She leaves to stay in a condo for a month January 4th. Problem is I dont know if I can wait that long.

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I understand that feeling of loneliness and how powerful it can feelā€¦ive been going to menā€™s group meetings and start introducing myself so I have more people to lean on when I am feeling lonely.

I want to commend you on playing the tape through! Itā€™s so easy to be tempted but you are able to see through to the end what drinking will really do for your loneliness. You got this!!!

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Day 15. Heading to get bloodwork to recheck my liver function. Hoping the results dont take too long with the holiday. Anxious to see if theres been any improvement and whatā€™s next

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Checking in on day 44.
Made it to the families last night and had a good first evening drinking kombucha, visiting, and putting together a puzzle. Also got unpacked, and organized for the week ahead. (My brain loves it when Iā€™m all ā€œsettled inā€ and have my comfort items handy).
Looking forward to another day of visiting, and enjoying the festivities.

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4 months 5 days today. What an amazing feeling to be sober. Hoping we all can continue on with fulfilling sober lives!

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Christmas Eve party with old school friends this evening. Mixed feelings, we are running late and thatā€™s a bit stressful but I am looking forward to seeing everyone. Not worried about drinking but I am seriously craving cigarettes and I donā€™t know how that will play out.

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Sugar free lifesavers!!! They are called that for a reason. :kissing_heart: And a brisk walk around the block. Soothes the nicotine agitated soul.

Enjoy the party, leave early if you must. Stay strong!! :heart:

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  1. Happy Christmas everyone.
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All the best to you my friend. Happy healthy holidays. Lovin the positive message, moving forward , thankful for the gift of today. :heavy_heart_exclamation::pray:

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@Girlinterrupted when do you get to see kiddos?? 2020 is going to look very different for me. Just going day by day by dayā€¦

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Day 34. Suffering from a nasty bout of man flu. Reminds me of how I used to feel just about every day, until my first drink! Merry Sober Christmas all :+1:

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Day 438. So far, so good. :bird:

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No I havenā€™t heard of those!

Thank you so much

Thank you @SoberWalker, feels pretty good!! :blush:

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