No need to hear him, some people think we are perverts innate and they think that we are not stopping this just for fun… thank you for the support Lisa.
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Watching porn is not good for health.
This guy that’s talking reminds me exactly of that
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You can stop. You can do it.
If others can stop we can also stop.
Crysple kid or however u spelled it
@jeffca thank you friend. I have determination… one will never understand this addiction untill they go through the same. and it really makes me happy to see such supportive and sincere people around here. I am going to update.
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This user has been silenced for a period of time for continuing to post under the influence after being advised not to. I hope everyone can resume the original topic to avoid continued derailing.
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I muted him. I can’t engage with inconsiderate people. They’re not worth my time or anyone else’s. I think we all deserve respect no matter what the addiction is.
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Yes, I wholly agree with this. It is not just about Pornography, it includes real sex as well. But does not matter I am just taking the constructive ones into account… thank you
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Alright, thank you for the advice. “Do not watch porn”. This is my ultimate goal but does this really seem that easy when just said like that? I think people are condemning you in this regard and I would probably never suggest any addict such a thing. In any case, I hope you got my point on this.
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Hi Çağatay, this is a good thorough catalogue of your problems caused by your addiction. I can hear how deeply it affects you. It sounds like you are ready for change in your life. That’s a great place to start from.
Your list of effects on your life reminds me of the topics we are discussing in my sex addiction recovery group right now. I am in a group with 5 other men. This is the book we are using to guide our recovery:
www.gentlepath.com/product.php?productid=94
“Gentle Path Press” is the publisher, but you can find it on Amazon just about everywhere, if that’s more convenient.
I found a very significant improvement in my recovery when I connected with my clinic. Is there a sex addiction recovery group or clinic anywhere near you? Is that something you could do? Neal (another recovering sex addict & a steady companion on the recovery journey) posted a good list here:
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@Matt To be honest, There are not any groups or clinics around here. People do not take it very seriously and My town is a small one. I can interact with people sharing the same addiction with me only on the internet. And thank you for the suggestions. I will take a look…
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Sounds good. The internet is better than nothing 
- keep checking in here & we can be an online resource for you.
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Hi @Cgty04,
It’s nice to hear from you again. Welcome back!
And you’re not giving up. Neither am I. That’s good.
If you want to enforce the 2 hour limit on your phone, I believe that the Lock Me Out app can do that. I found a way to block all access to porn on my phone, but it’s pretty extreme.
Anyways, I hope you stick around. Just keep posting. I’ll add you to the Men’s struggling with PMO private thread. Take care.
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Hey Kevin, I am really glad to see you again. Yes, I am not giving up. And thank you for the recommendation. I am going to join you.
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I think most of us here would recognise that this is a daily battle and one we can’t take lightly. I think having a robust support network is really important. Hopefully you can build some of that through this app and forum.
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One thing that’s helped me the most is constantly reminding myself I don’t have it under control and that I need help to stay sober and in recovery.
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Well done man keep going!
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Well done…)
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