Daily Gratitude, The Air Of Recovery #3

Morning Twinnie. :hugs:

Iā€™m grateful he pooped :poop::heart:
Iā€™m grateful the parents donā€™t have to worry about that anymore.
Iā€™m grateful heā€™s nursing now.
Iā€™m grateful for my son-in-law. He loves my grandson so damn much. I mean heā€™s all over him. I donā€™t even think mom has had to changed a diaper yet.
Iā€™m grateful for a house full of love and concern.
Iā€™m grateful they let grandpa watch both football games yesterday. Iā€™m grateful Iā€™m not really that much into it. Itā€™s more like background noise. They donā€™t do football :scream:
Iā€™m grateful they liked my lunch and dinner I made for them yesterday.
Iā€™m grateful I can help them out by doing chores and errands and holding Gus. Especially holding Gus.

Iā€™m grateful I was in bed early reading last night.
Iā€™m grateful for the Stumptown Coffee in the shop here in the hotel. Never had it before. Iā€™m grateful it was really good. Iā€™m fucking French Roast wired.
Iā€™m grateful we can get an exercise walk in before we go to the house. I hope wifey can keep up with me.
Iā€™m grateful today is good.
Iā€™m grateful I bypassed the bar again last night and never even thought about it.

Iā€™m grateful we donā€™t have to rush to go over to the house today and we can pick up lunch on the way over. Iā€™m grateful we just go over when they are ready for us.

Iā€™m grateful for gratitude and itā€™s my only recovery work Iā€™ll be doing today. Besides not drinking. Im grateful I donā€™t even entertain the idea of having a drink.
:pray:t2: :poop: :heart:

ā€Gratitude will shift you to a higher frequency, and you will attract much better things.ā€
Rhonda Byrne

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I am grateful for:

  • black tea with stevia and 2 tbsp of coconut milk (didnā€™t have anything else and itā€™s soo delicious)
  • to be at home now
  • to hit the pool later
  • for an eye opening conversation yesterday about health issues caused by alcohol
  • for my bed
  • for peace
  • for feeling a both very aggressive and depressive tune slowly pass
  • to be able to feel love

:purple_heart:

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Today Iā€™m again grateful for a normal day. Had my feelings all over the place in the morning due to far too realistic nightmare. Iā€™m grateful my snuggling and purring cats digged me out of crying, Iā€™m grateful I read @Callie99 's gratitude post first in the morning. Thank you for helping me calm down by reading your post :pray:

Iā€™m grateful I got some administration work done today. Calling my insurance agent is enervating. When this issue is done I will evaluate if changing the agent makes sense. Iā€™m grateful I take things step by step.

Iā€™m grateful a friend called me. We phone every week, we worry if not (due to reasons where no answer/ringback/message was a significant sign that something was terribly wrong).
Iā€™m grateful I groomed the cats. They shed.
Iā€™m grateful I called my ex for some information I need. The talk was ok. Iā€™m grateful I left out private questions I deeply want to ask him. Makes no sense, I wouldnā€™t get an answer. Iā€™m grateful I made one of my points clear. Letā€™s see what he makes of it. He made clear he needs to get his driver license back before he can think about how he or we deal with the farm. Well, I do my homework anyway, so it might occur that I come up with a plan first. Not my problem if he is not prepared to move on. Iā€™m grateful I have faith that everything will fall into place.
Iā€™m grateful Iā€™ll be heading early to bed. Iā€™m tired, the weather is grey and the fire in the stove already went out. Iā€™m grateful for the cozy warm house.

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I am grateful to God. I am grateful for my family. I am grateful for my friends. I am grateful for all the gratidudes new and old, the ones that are out there that never even heard our term gratidude that suggested even attempting such a thing as being grateful for addiction. I am grateful for recovery.
God bless you all. :v: & :heart:

p.s. Youā€™re a star, shine bright. Ya you!!

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Yeaaaa @I.cant.We.can so greatful to see you checking in with gratitude!!

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So happy to see you!

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There he is! Iā€™m so grateful to see our all star Gratidude @I.cant.We.can! Just not the same around here withoutā€™cha, you know. Ya you.

Iā€™m grateful for modern medicine. And the shingles vaccine I got yesterday afternoon. Even though it took me right out today. Like, out. Iā€™m grateful this hopefully means I wonā€™t get shingles in my life.

Iā€™m grateful for my meeting tonight. The meditation and shares couldnā€™t have been better. Iā€™d been in my head for a few days with life and work stuff. That always makes me feel like Iā€™m failing at life. Enter self-judgment. Grateful recovery doesnā€™t take away lifeā€™s hard days but gives me tools to deal with them, to not add to my suffering.

Iā€™m grateful for naps. For snow. For tea. For learning how to extend compassion to myself and others.

Iā€™m grateful to see @desert_rose posting away. Hey friend :cherry_blossom:
Iā€™m grateful to start my week with @Soberbilly wishing me a Happy Monday! From Florida!
Grateful I could so identify with @Irisees919 and @TryingJoyā€™s posts. :pray:
Iā€™d be grateful if theyā€™d could turn @Bootzā€™ posts into major motion pictures! :laughing:
Iā€™m grateful for this community and what we share. We really are fortunate.

Iā€™m grateful for another day. :orange_heart:

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Wonderful way to wake up in gratitude: with a quiet cold and dark morning, a warm cup of coffee in my cozy chair, and see your postā€¦welcome back Brian :heart:

I may not have been posting daily, but gratitude has been with me every day. This thread means so much to me. It changed something very fundamental about how I see the world and how I respond to it.

Iā€™m grateful for my new job. Iā€™m grateful I see it as a meaningful, very positive contribution to a place that needs it. The job will be a challenge for sure, but Iā€™m happy the people seem not only to be of really amazing caliber, but also respectful, reasonable, plain out good people to work with!

Iā€™m grateful Iā€™m sorting out the commute. Iā€™m grateful Iā€™m sorting out the kidsā€™ schedules. Iā€™m grateful I may have been stricter with them and have had some tough mom moments, but they are more than ok. Oldest did really well in a test, youngest did get some sports concerns resolved in a very mature way for his age. And Iā€™m finding time to be with them, really be with them, whenever I can. Including baking their favorite cake or lasagna when I find the time :heart:

Iā€™m grateful I got a lingering bad sports injury checked. I could barely walk last week. Iā€™m grateful thereā€™s a way to treat it and itā€™s not as severe as a torn ligament or a stress fracture (which seemed a real possibility last week). Iā€™m grateful I can start moving again, but carefully. I was going nuts without regular exercise.

Iā€™m grateful Iā€™m trying my best to resolve the resentment I had towards my husband. I love him and I donā€™t want to feel this way. I really struggled these past 10 days not reaching for a drink to numb it out. I was really hurt and this was the first time I had to deal with this kind of hurt sober. But Iā€™m doing it. And it is allowing me to assess why Iā€™m feeling this way and why he really felt the need to do things his way. Gathering some compassion and empathy to come to the rescue. Work in progress.

Iā€™m grateful for another day full of possibilities ahead of me. And for a second cup of my favorite flavored coffee :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

Much love to you all! :heart::heart::heart:

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I am grateful to be sober.
I am content that I seem to find better words in emails to express my point of view. Not expressing deception or anything but my point of view. Maybe you donā€™t get it by my English. Anyway.
I am grateful the days are getting longer.
I am grateful for food, electricity, public transport.
I am I had some nice chats yesterday. Helped a woman with her buggy and toddler in it.
I am grateful I can walk.
I am happy that my colleague asked me about my weekend. Not that there was something to report. But she asked me. Can you believe it?
I am grateful I have enough.

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Brian, I miss you.
:blush: :heart:

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Iā€™m grateful to see you Brian. :people_hugging:

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Morning check in. Iā€™m grateful to see @I.cant.We.can Brian around. I missed you!
Iā€™m grateful for NO nightmares. Only kind of weird dreams, sometimes with even funny scenes. What a difference it makes waking up with NO upset emotions :pray:
Iā€™m grateful for some reading and thinking I did for 2,5 hours since I woke up. Iā€™m still grateful for yesterday. I had some interesting insights going through messages and notes from the last 3 years. Iā€™m grateful Iā€™m preparing this way for necessary work I have to do today. I have mixed feelings about it. But first: Tea :teapot:
(Today I really envy all people who can drink coffe when they want to. I will negotiate with my stomach if I can have one without painful side effects today. I literally smell coffee though Iā€™m alone and no husband is having his morning coffee downstairs. I loved this routine. And the smell :coffee:)

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Grateful for sobriety
Grateful for kids doing their own thing
Grateful for the house
Grateful for free time but no intrusive drinking thoughts
Grateful for smooth dealings with city hall
Grateful for entertainment
Grateful to have health
Grateful for Noisy

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Grateful for the new dryer that will be delivered today. It will make my life easier, not having the whole laundry hanging around in my bedroom most of the days :sweat_smile:

Yes itā€™s energy crisis but as itā€™s a A+++ very modern device that needs less then 100 per year if you use it for a family of 4. I am alone. So what!

Grateful that washing machine and dryer are both connectable with the app. :sunglasses:

I am gratefulā€¦

  • for coffee
  • my hip being less stiff (had some problem)
  • yoga skills
  • knowledge
  • possibilities
  • summer rolls with very fresh and crispy cucumber and peanut butter dressing, I will make for lunch
  • to be sober now and get back on sober horse
  • family
  • water, warmth, electricity, internet connection
  • open pools!
  • be able to feel love

Love :purple_heart:

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Thanks! I was really involved with AA in Laos but it just hasnā€™t had the same flavor to me moving back to NYā€¦ RDO is working for now but I really hope to find an in person meeting to connect with ā€¦ community.
Havenā€™t heard of H Ghosts eitherā€¦ living in a bubble as long as I did, AA was a big changeā€¦ but here we are ā€¦ here I amā€¦ walking a balance of recovery sober. Yeah, I went and read thru the older RD thread this morningā€¦ woke up at 430 and couldnā€™t sleepā€¦ slept too good! Yeah, Iā€™m usually on the RDO as Kelly B say hello if you ever see me there. Anyone can.
My days of anonymity are long over LOL.

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Grateful to be able to give myself some room to pass on my morning workout routine today and instead have a bit of bonus snoozy puppy snuggles. Some kinda tension is making me feel like all the muscles in my neck head and face have shrunk by 1/2 inch, and Iā€™m grateful to be able to give myself a little leeway this morning. Grateful the dogs are settling in and becoming friends, and grateful the puppy sleeps and snuggles through the night. Grateful for a bit of sunshine today.

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Today I am grateful for a great night of sleep and a hangover free morning. Iā€™m grateful to have passed all options for alcohol on my way home yesterday and chose a healthy dinner instead. Iā€™m grateful for the books, mantras, inspiring stories along the way that helped me to do that. Iā€™m grateful for my friend who I can talk to throughout the day about even the tiniest detail of life and still be shown interest and compassion - I am most grateful to do that for her as well. I am grateful for the step by step training plan that reminds me to take each day, hour, minute as a building block toward my goals, instead of trying to eat the whole elephant at once! Im gratefup for a 4 year lease that has kept my rent low throughout these crazy economic times. Woshing you all a great day.

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Good morning sober fam!

Im so very greatful forā€¦

My sobriety, 268 days free
My partner, my hubby
Boscoe
Option to work from home
AA fellowship
A productive monday
Sticking to my healthy eating
Clean tap water
Looking forward to a walk with Boscoe
Quality sleep sans nightmares
My folks
My family
Progress not perfection

Peace and love

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Grateful for another sober morning and a great speaker meeting.

Grateful for the zazen instruction I attended with my daughter, who immediately became a member. (How nice for her since sheā€™s driving my car and I have no transportation!) :rofl:
This too shall pass. Right now itā€™s important for her to get to school and all of my classes are online. We are waiting for taxes to replace hers, which dropped a piece of engine block in the middle of the road. :grimacing:

I am grateful for working at home and an easy pace in the beginning of this semester.

I am grateful for 15 days of making my bed every single morning.

I am grateful for online communities, as Nebraska seems to be a sobriety wasteland. I am looking forward to leaning into the meditation community at the Zen Center.

I am grateful it reminded me to pick up Eight Step Recovery and I just may start a meeting of my own.

I am grateful for the activists that are prepping for a fight against the anti-transgender legislation that has recently been introduced. Itā€™s such a step back and it hurts.

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Iā€™m grateful for gratitude :pray:t2:
Iā€™m grateful to be kinda all caught up here in a whirlwind of much gratitude, yours :pray:t2: mine :heart: ours. :hugs:
Hey Brian. Grateful I donā€™t have to worry about my team winning or loosing the Super Bowl. Go Bengals! With honey on top :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

Iā€™m grateful I was up early listening to my wife.
Im grateful for my son and DIL. Being therapists and already had a baby they are good to talk to.
Im grateful we got over being upset that the kids donā€™t want to see us all day today. :grimacing: Or Thursday. :grimacing: Iā€™m grateful we are sticking to the facts.
Iā€™m grateful we reap what we sow.
Iā€™m grateful my wife and I are going with compassion this morning and that all this baby stuff is so new to them. Even though we flew all the way out here to be with them, we can get a couple of half days off to ourselves, go to Malibu and go out alone for a nice dinner tonight. Take a drive on the PCH.

Iā€™m grateful we get to exercise walk each morning and we donā€™t have to rush over to see them.
Iā€™m grateful itā€™s all good.

Iā€™m grateful I let my wife be all pissed off about it last night. Like I could do anything about it. I could. I listened. And we stuck to the facts.
Iā€™m grateful for the Berenstain Bears children books. They should have one titled Berenstain Bears And Too Much Family :hugs:

Iā€™m grateful to be sharing my gratitude time with my wifeā€™s Twitter time. Grateful Iā€™m flexible. Im grateful she just showed me a great TikTok she came across.

Iā€™m grateful for my recovery and gratitude will be my recovery work for the morning.
:pray:t2: :older_man: :baby: :heart:

ā€Gratitude is an antidote to negative emotions, a neutralizer of envy, hostility, worry, and irritation. It is savoring; it is not taking things for granted; it is present-oriented.ā€
Sonja Lyubomirsky

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