Daily Gratitude, The Air Of Recovery #5

Grateful for being married to an amazing woman and having a fresh start in life

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Damn thatā€™s cool as hell! Love it :kissing_heart:
Ever so grateful that you and wifey are enjoying your time togetherā€¦ :people_hugging:

So awesome dude I am excited for youā€¦have fun picking out the perfect ones : :wink:

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Today Iā€™m grateful that everything went well. Iā€™m grateful I could exchange a non-fitting part for the cat condo at the shop, grateful they had the one I needed. Iā€™m grateful I found two posters for the nice frames I bought. Gonna mount them tomorrow. Iā€™m grateful I made a stroll through a big furniture store and collected ideas. Iā€™m grateful I am patient these days. As the court appointment approaches with every day I work harder to enjoy my house to the fullest and not think about what will be and how I could cope. Itā€™s a shizo situation. I had to tell myself often today that whatever the future holds, itā€™s not my business today. Today Iā€™m here to enjoy.

Iā€™m grateful for a long bath in my vast bathtub. My back and hip were aching and I decided that a bath, homemade ointment and a good rest could possibly help. Iā€™m grateful I feel better.

Iā€™m grateful a friend called. These days are exhausting and straining for some of my friends. Iā€™m grateful they call me to vent, to talk it out, to find encouragement. Iā€™m grateful I am there for them :pray:

Iā€™m grateful for healthy boundaries. Another friend called me in the evening and wanted to come over. They are a group who always meet on saturday at a guy nearby. I said she can come but all the others not. No party at my house, Iā€™ll be sleeping in an hour and thereā€™s no alcohol in my house. Iā€™m grateful they all stayed where they were. I like my quiet zone. Already drunk people are awkward, I donā€™t want them in my house, nevertheless I like them sober.

Iā€™m grateful I sat on the balcony with tea and gratitude when two little tractors came out of the wood. They have to cross my land and I was grateful they were driving slowly and carefully.

Iā€™m grateful the cats feel good, have fun, eat & poop a lot, snuggle, cuddle, purr and play. It makes me happy how much they enjoy this cozy, big house. And of course looking out the windows watching all kind of wildlife. Iā€™m grateful I decided to move here at least for autumn season. Itā€™s beautiful.
Oh, and I donā€™t have a TV here, the ex took it. Iā€™m grateful I did not miss it in the last 10 days since I moved in. Turning it on at the town house is obviously just a habit that I donā€™t miss.
Iā€™m grateful for all my blessings, for peace and joy, for friends and pets, for kindness and boundaries. ODAAT :pray:

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Iā€™m grateful to God for lovingly guiding me and helping me abstain from most of my addictions. Iā€™m grateful for my family, friends, TS and the gratidudes. Iā€™m grateful I havenā€™t relapsed on drugs or alcohol. I have been consuming alot of sugar, nicotine and caffeine, all of which are clearly addictive in my mind. Iā€™m grateful I can admit I struggle with saying Iā€™m an addict working on my recovery (especially when at a meeting or qualifying as a chairperson) when I am currently not working on those. Iā€™m grateful for progess not perfection but also fear that I can fall into the trap of manipulating the slogans and program for my own selfish needs. Iā€™m grateful I have a good job. Iā€™m grateful that I can again admit I am resentfully wondering how my application for school is still on hold. It was stated that until I pay my outstanding tuition it will remain on hold, my logical brain thinks, well, you sent it to collections so its now off your books. I donā€™t believe that they will be monitiring the debt they sold off to know when its done being paid for? :thinking: Iā€™m grateful I have the weekend off. Iā€™m grateful I went golfing yesterday regardless of the fact that my expectations to play well didnā€™t even come close to working out. Iā€™m grateful I can post a selfie here on our home thread. @Sunflower1

Iā€™m grateful for my sponsor. Iā€™m grateful I have a new sponsee and that he is local and has had over a year and a half clean in the time Iā€™ve know him. Iā€™m grateful he has held onto his area and group service positions after a vote due to his recent relapse. Iā€™m grateful I wasnā€™t involved in that, but, I guess I could abstain from a vote like that because I feel it would be hard to be non-biased. Iā€™m grateful he bought me lunch after I invited him to a meeting this morning. Iā€™m grateful my local CA group has a business meeting tonight followed by the regular meeting where we read and discuss the big book of AA. Iā€™m grateful that I am gathering some courage to type it out here, in spite of my twisted thinking that mentioning a date on here is bad luck. I asked a lady from the rooms with 17 years sober to join me for coffee this week and she said yes. I am hoping I was clear enough that she will consider it a coffee date and not just coffee with another recovering alcoholic. Iā€™m grateful I let go of one of my service positions and declined offers for other ones recently, including a chance to join the church choir at my church and another church asked me to be a youth group leader. Iā€™m grateful for those opportunities and that I can address them again in the future when and if I or my higher power think its the right time and fit. Iā€™m grateful for humor and laughter. Iā€™m grateful for prayer and meditation. Iā€™m grateful for the @moderators who work to block posts from the sadly still suffering addict or mental health struggling individual. Iā€™m grateful that a problem shared with God, gratidudes, recovery groups or whatever supports, is a problem halfed.

May our higher powers grant us serenity.

p.s. I beleive in you, chin up. Ya you!!

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Iā€™m grateful for this forum and certain people here. If you wonder if youā€™re in that group, then you probably are. :wink:

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Oh wow Billy this was a huge conversation and what a load off of both your shoulders. Grateful for the talk and grateful that you two are good now. :people_hugging:

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This is difficult indeed. I can imagine it being hard to not be around people of similar age or interests.
Has your sister talked with your mom about it? Your mom seems very active.
I know some homes are really well organized and have a lot of fun activities which the folks enjoy. Not everyones cup of tea but your mom might be interested :person_shrugging:

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Thanks Billy.
Iā€™m grateful I do enjoy the adventure of uncharted territory.
Currently. Today.
Thatā€™s what is all about.
:pray:t2::heart:

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Ah loveā€¦thatā€™s really tough. Iā€™m sorry for all three of em. Canā€™t be easy

Grateful for this! I do too.
:people_hugging::people_hugging::heart:

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Today Iā€™m grateful that I have a choice. Iā€™m grateful that that choice has an impact on everyoneā€™s life who I meet from the time I spend with people I love to the stranger in the street who gets a smile and door opened for them. Iā€™m grateful Iā€™m not afraid to live and days hold curiosityā€™s instead of fear. Iā€™m grateful I sleep with peace and wake with gratitude. Iā€™m grateful I get to live instead of just being alive. Iā€™m grateful I know what love and happiness feel like.
Iā€™m grateful if I donā€™t pick up today I can feel like this tomorrow.

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Omg i forgot my morning gratitude! So here we goā€¦

Im greatful for my loving mother and the laughs we share.
Im greatful for my loving husband and his big heart and hugs.
Im greatful for Boscoe.
Im greatful for mucinex, antibiotics, and coffee
Im greatful i got a workout in today and didnt push myself too much cuz im recovering
Im greatful i have one more day to get my mental health together before i have to tackle work stress
Im greatful for a mid afternoon nap with boscoe
Im greatful for the many blessings in our lives
Im greatful for fall weather

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Good to see your smile on the homethread!! And those beautiful sunflowers!

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Iā€™m grateful for a productive and fun weekend.
Iā€™m grateful I could get into my daughterā€™s bedroom while sheā€™s away for a deep clean.
Iā€™m grateful it took me nearly 5 hours (teenagers are gross! :rofl:). It means she has a decluttered, neatly organised and clean room to come back to.
Iā€™m grateful I am sober so I could do this and show her how much I love her.
Iā€™m grateful I made another dog coat yesterday. I am enjoying sewing and making again.
Iā€™m grateful I did have a dance around to music last night @Dazercat nobody needs to see that though :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
Iā€™m grateful my daughter rang me both nights from camp just to talk and say goodnight and she loves me. Iā€™m grateful/hopeful things like this mean she doesnā€™t resent me too much for being flakey and not always doing the stuff I said I would in the past when I chose alcohol.
Iā€™m grateful I choose her and my family over that poison every day now.
Iā€™m grateful that even though I dyed my hair, got distracted, left it on too long and now itā€™s waaaaay too dark (weā€™re talking black here, meant to be brown) I know that this too shallā€¦fade, and am not getting stressed over it. At least I tried some self care.
Iā€™m grateful to be sober.
Iā€™m grateful you are all enjoying the joys of sober life too.
Have a wonderful Sunday soberistas.
FAFAF, ODAAT
:heart::v:

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Good morning sober fam,

I cant believe i forgot to jot down my morning gratitude yesterday. My minds kinda a mess rn bc im in mania. Its flippin exhausting. Hoping i level out soon! So here it goesā€¦

Im so very greatful forā€¦

My sobriety
My support network
Its ok to not be ok
Time with hubby todayā€¦we have a date to go to a semipro baseball game :slight_smile:
I get to go grocery shopping today
Slept thru the night
Boscoe, my reliable fuzzy (unkempt) buddy
This constant mental state of overwhelm is temporary
Lost weight this week even being sick!
Basic needs exceeded
No shame or lies around drinking or vaping
Another day to try to get my shit together!
All of you. This amazing supportive community fills my heart.

Calm free flowing energy to ya

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Thank you @I.cant.We.can! :blush:
We are grateful forum members bring posts to our attention. We donā€™t read every post and rely heavily on the community. Weā€™re grateful for the support.
We donā€™t get an alert when the @moderators tag is used so I shared your sentiment with other mods.

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I am grateful I woke up.
I am grateful I had a long run yesterday.
I am grateful @Lisa07 reads the gratitude thread and shared it today.
I am grateful I read @I.cant.We.can 's gratitude share today, and was inspired by his post and also very appreciative of his gratitude. Thank you.
I am grateful for TS and the opportunity to give back.
I am grateful for visiting friends.
I am grateful for cooler mornings.
I am grateful for my husband.

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I am grateful to wake sober and rested on a Sundayā€¦ Eight hours sleep my dudesssss
Grateful for my Kindle and reading as thatā€™s my greatest joy apart from cooking
Grateful that I went to the gym for the first time in YEARS. HALF HOUR ON THE TREADMILL!!
Feel amazing now, had tasty leftovers; gratitude I made them and that I have a safe home and means to warm them up and enjoy.
Grateful for coffee, am starting to enjoy it again for what it is, not what it does.

I do feel so grateful today.

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Good morning friends,
Iā€™m grateful for a relaxing weekend getaway. Iā€™m grateful for playing yard games with my family barefoot in the grass. Iā€™m grateful I didnā€™t feel like I needed anything but water to enjoy that time. Iā€™m grateful for how much being in the mountains with pine trees rejuvenates me. Iā€™m grateful that when I was getting all in a huff became nobody wanted to do what I wanted to do, I went to sit on a quiet swing under the trees and listen to a meditation on letting go of anger. And it worked! Iā€™m grateful I got to have this view for a couple days.


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Iā€™m grateful for a long slow flexible Sunday morning texting family, talking to wifey, PMing friends, and eventually, maybe get to my gratitude.

Grateful for cooler later walks with The Burner.
Grateful for football weekends.
Grateful for a nice dinner out last night. Grateful wifey and I both admired the beautiful wine glasses set on all the tables. Iā€™m grateful I could tell her I still admire the set ups like that. Grateful they had a mocktail list. First page of the bar menu no less. Iā€™m grateful we enjoyed our mocktails.
Iā€™m grateful for our sober time together. Just for today. Now.
Iā€™m grateful I got a meeting tonight.
Iā€™m grateful Gus gets his 8 months today.
Iā€™m grateful Iā€™ll get to see the little buggah in a couple of weeks.
Iā€™m grateful Iā€™m retired.
Iā€™m grateful Iā€™m not drinking away my retirement.
Iā€™m grateful I travel sober.
Iā€™m grateful I donā€™t get skull crushing hangovers anymore.
Iā€™m grateful for patience and calmness and meditation and mantras.
Iā€™m grateful Alice is getting up and ready for her subcutaneous fluids. I swear she knows itā€™s today.
Love you guys. Ya you :kissing_heart:

Gratitude is when memory is stored in the heart and not in the mind.
Lionel Hampton

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Today I am grateful for 55 days. Yay almost to 60 days

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