God, help me accept all the twists and turns along my path. Help me to say whatever to the good and the unfortunate incidents that come my way.
âMelody Beattie
âWhen we walk in Godâs light, we are transformed.â
âEleanor Park Kammer
âVoices we prefer to ignore may speak words we need to hear.â
âDon Deal
âIf there is anything we wish to change in the child, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could be better changed in ourselves.â
âCarl Jung
âIn forgiving ourselves, we make the journey from guilt for what we have done (or not done) to celebration of what we have become.â
âJoan Borysenko
TRUE BROTHERHOOD
We have not once sought to be one in a family, to be a friend among friends, to be a worker among workers, to be a useful member of society. Always we tried to struggle to the top of the heap, or to hide underneath it. This self-centered behavior blocked a partnership relation with any one of those about us. Of true brotherhood we had small comprehension.
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 53
This message contained in Step Four was the first one I heard loud and clear; I hadnât seen myself in print before! Prior to my coming into A.A., I knew of no place that could teach me how to become a person among persons. From my very first meeting, I saw people doing just that and I wanted what they had. One of the reasons that Iâm a happy, sober alcoholic today is that Iâm learning this most important lesson.
From the book Daily Reflections.
Copyright © 1990 by Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc. All rights reserved.
Walk in Dry Places
Letting Go of Resentment
Releasing the Past
How can we really put an end to festering resentments toward other people? âPray for these people,â the Old-timers said. âGo out of your way to do something good for them.â This is a big order for most of us, but we are working for a big reward: Sobriety, peace of mind, and personal progress.
When we pray for others in this manner, weâre practicing the noble art of forgiveness. How do we know when itâs staring to work? Lewis B. Smedes, a master teacher of forgiveness, offers this thought: âYou will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well.â
Forgiveness also is supposed to include forgetting the wrong. What we really forget is the hurt connected with it. When anything that once evoked pain comes to mind, weâre growing spiritually if it no longer has the power to hurt us.
We then discover that we had been letting go our resentments hurt us again and again. We also learn that one effort to forgive is not nearly enough. Forgiveness takes the same amount of practice and emotional power we put into carrying the resentment!
Today will bring enough problems. I donât have either the time or the energy to play the old tapes that cause me pain. Iâll practice praying for those who hurt me, and Iâll take it for granted that my HIgher Power is removing my resentments.
Keep It Simple
Go outside, to the fields, enjoy nature and the sunshine, go out and try to recapture happiness in yourself and in God.âAnne Frank
Many of us look at the joy and beauty of the program with caution. It was different from our addictive joy. Was it to be trusted? When we started working the Steps, we found inner joy and beauty. As we let go and gave in to the program, we found more happiness. We found joy in ourselves, our friends, our Higher Power, and those around us. Our self-pity changed to self-respect. We were truly out in the sunshine. We were no longer lost in misery. We know how to walk through misery to find joy.
Prayer for the Day: May I become better friends with myself. Higher Power, let me see the world through Your innocent, yet wise and loving eyes
Action for the Day: Today Iâll work to make my life and the lives of others more joyful. Iâll greet myself and others with much joy.
You can complain because roses have thorns, or you can rejoice because thorns have roses.
âTom Wilson
The difficulties of life are intended to make us better, not bitter.
âAnon.
No man is a failure who is enjoying life.
âWilliam Feather
Keep It Simple
To know the road ahead, ask those coming back.âChinese proverb
Weâre going down a new-roadâin our recovery and in our lives. We donât know the road. We only know weâre on the right one, because our Higher Power led us here. We ask for help from those who already know the road. We ask our sponsor, âHow far is it until I get done feeling guilty?â
âHow far to self-love?â âHow bumpy is the road when Iâm at Step Four?â We need people who have been in the program. They tell us where to slow down because this part of the trip is beautiful.
Someday, maybe today, we too will be called on to guide others.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, Youâve put me on this road. Youâve also put others on this road. Let them be my guide. Let my guides become my friends.
Action for the Day: Today, Iâll find someone who has been in the program two or more years longer than me. Iâll ask that person what the road ahead is like.
God, help me to let go of my need to control and to be open to the flow of the universe.
-Melody Beattie
âNotice the acts of kindness other people do rather than their wrongdoing. This is how the loving presence views you. We are all good, decent, loving souls who occasionally get lost.â
âWayne Dyer
âWhen things go wrong, donât go with them.â
âAnon.
âIt wasnât raining when Noah built the ark.â
âHoward Ruff
Each Day a New Beginning
It is only when people begin to shake loose from their preconceptions, from the ideas that have dominated them, that we begin to receive a sense of opening, a sense of vision. --Barbara Ward
A sense of vision, seeing who we can dare to be and what we can dare to accomplish, is possible if we focus intently on the present and always the present. We are all we need to be, right now. We can trust that. And we will be shown the way to become who we need to become, step by step, from one present moment to the next present moment. We can trust that, too.
The past that we hang onto stands in our way. Many of us needlessly spend much of our lives fighting a poor self-image. But we can overcome that. We can choose to believe we are capable and competent. We can be spontaneous, and our vision of all that life can offer will changeâwill excite us, will cultivate our confidence.
We can respond to life wholly. We can trust our instincts. And we will become all that we dare to become.
Each day is a new beginning. Each moment is a new opportunity to let go of all that has trapped me in the past. I am free. In the present, I am free.
The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing.
âJohn Powell
Devote uninterrupted chunks of time to the most important people in your life.
âBrian Tracy
Nothing is better than experiencing joy except sharing it with someone else.
âDeanna Smythe
There shall be an eternal summer in the grateful heart.
âCelia Thaxter









