Dark past probs

Hey guys! So my partner and I recently watched the heartbreak kid.
On his honey moon the main character finds out his wife had a past substance abuse problems, had a previously bad relationship, and was a volunteer full time.
Literally when I met my partner all of these were true. It was portrayed in such a negative sense it kind of hurt. Like oh no, that’s me.
I know that all of our lives have meaning determined by God. I have come a long way and I am so proud of that. This movie has really bothered me for some reason. It has made my doub myself and feel ashamed. I don’t understand why this has bothered me so much. Hopefully I can break out of this vibe . Has anyone else has bad sobriety vibes triggered by something so simple such as this?