Welcome to the forum!
I got sober by growing my sobriety. I never had any luck with fighting the symptoms, I had to endure them while I worked on the real problems.
I used Antabuse, individual counseling, AA and intensive outpatient treatment, in that order. I also had built-in accountability, I had to check in sober every day at the police station. It’s better to use Talking Sober for that, than the courts!
Here’s some things other people here have had success doing to stay sober. Resources for our recovery