I don’t know if anyone else has experienced this, but is it normal if something bad happened, you ignored feelings via using substances, now you’re sober and all the feelings hit you like a tidal wave. Because I have been so much more sad since I stopped drinking.
Its about J again. I had a dream the other night where we were together again, and then I woke up and remembered that she died 4 years ago. It still hurts so much. I miss her so much, despite what she did to me. I feel weak cause its been years I should be done grieving but in a sense I hadn’t started feeling all of that until recently. I just bottled it up and pushed it down and now its pouring out.
So yeah. Feelings are hard. So many songs make me think of her and its hard. I’m having a hard time moving on. I can’t sleep, I’m scared of what I could wake up to. I mean I woke up and she was dead that morning. I don’t want that to happen to anyone I care about again. I can’t let anyone else die. I’m always on alert and paranoid and its exhausting and I can’t stop. I’m a lil upset I missed therapy last week but hopefully I get a session this week to unpack all of this.
Thanks for listening to me ramble. Just needed to vent.