It. Not them. It.
You say you want advice and accountability, but refuse to be held accountable for refering to a certain group of people as ‘substances’, ‘its’ and, ‘hookers’
@KevinesKay - I said nothing about ‘prostitute’. My objection was to repeated use of ‘hookers’ and claiming the ‘hookers’ are ‘substances’. So I’m unsure what your point is? There are survivors of the sex trade on this forum, so language matters. You say ‘disgusting’, I say traumatised human being.
There’s a dangerous trend among the sex addiction community to call sex workers ‘dirty’, ‘disgusting’ and describe them as less than human. That’s not just dangerous but it also encourages people to continue paying to basically rape another person and then blame that person for being the disgusting one.