Welcome Dee. There are a couple of condensed starter threads, lots of ideas on how to get and stay sober. Try Resources for our recovery, that one has lots and lots of great ideas.
I have seen people get sober behind the devastation of a DUI on their lives. And I’ve seen people, like me, who simply had to keep drinking no matter what. But during my last arrest for DUI, I had a moment when I was given the message that everything was going to be alright and I would be able to stop drinking. Anyone willing enough can get sober at any point in their journey, and I wish blessings on your house for you at this juncture in your journey. 