You seem to be doing just fine to me (in terms of using the app). All any of us do is reply to each other or start a new thread if we want a fresh conversation. If it will help, there is some basic information below.
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In terms of this thread, you have my sympathies. That is a hard thing to hear from a partner. You have been sober for a while (I checked on your profile) so it seems that alcohol was not the only issue in your relationship (it rarely is, IMO, it certainly wasn’t / isn’t in mine). You also have small kids so it really is a hard situation to be in. Have you tried things to work through your issues before? Would your partner be open to it?
Definitely drinking will make a bad situation worse, you are wise to reach out instead. I hope you can get through this tough time.