Just wanted to share what works for me and clear up any confusion. This time around I don’t count my sober days I approach as everyday I wake up it’s day 1. This is the first place I have acknowledged how many days I have. I am very proud of my sober time but it’s easier for me to start fresh each day. People get confused about it in meetings thinking I might of relapsed and some think it’s wrong to not celebrate my milestones but to each their own. Just doing what works in my world
All we have is today. I see ya brother
What an interesting approach. I can see why it works for you. Congratulations on day 1!
532 day ones!! Congrats!!
I like it! Keeps the forgetting at bay. I can never forget when I remember Day 1 clearly in all its awfulness.
Nice post; thanks!
I love this…everyday is day 1
Living in the present (such a gift! ) is definitely working for you! Congratulations on today and your 532!! Do what works for you!!
You do you my friend — we each have to find what works for us and keeps us on the path of sobriety. Very impressive time and congrats on stacking up all your day 1’s
Such a good read , I think I finally am starting to understand from a different perspective what people mean now when they say one day at a time, and “each day is my day 1” .
Wowza, the amount of times I belittled myself because I was thinking “what’s gonna happen one year from now?!” .
I need to really take this new approach of each day is my day one. I am a big stress drinker , so maybe that’s one of my worry triggers I haven’t really thought about yet.
Gotta live more in the moment.
@Cjp @50ber @Pattycake @Lighter @Smkygal @SassyRocks @JazzyS @Drew95 I appreciate all the kind words and the congrats! Thank you all so much…
So glad to read this. When a year came for me, it didn’t seem like a big deal. I didn’t really want to acknowledge that fact, bc I didn’t want other, newcomers mostly, to think it’s not worth celebrating, or that I wasn’t grateful for how far I’ve come.
To this day, I remind myself of the horrors that drinking causes, just as vividly as if it happened yesterday. To me, each day that passes is another day won and that’s all that really matters.
I do like numbers tho, and 400 yesterday was pretty cool
Congratulations on your 400!! That is a cool # indeed!! I also like remembering the horrors of my drinking career…the reality of it. I am grateful to be sober today.
I’ve been sober since 7:30 this morning. A lot of days in a row before this, but I’ve been sober only Since I Awoke.
400 is a very cool number! Congratulations on all those daily victories