Hi, and welcome! Glad you’re here.
It is frustrating when other people just don’t get it… But then really why would they? Our relationship with alcohol is our problem and it’s up to us to decide what we do about it.
There is so much help available - joining this forum and contacting AA are great places to start. This thread has a list of some of the many other resources that are available: Resources for our recovery
Keep checking in, read as much as you can and reach out whenever you need to!