Welcome to Talking Sober. First of all, I’m proud of you for having the desire to stop using alcohol and substances. That is the first step toward recovery.
The same thing happened to me. I lost very good jobs, relationships, all my money, cars, gold, and much more—all because of my addiction.
One important thing to understand is that we cannot change the past, and we cannot predict the future. The only thing we truly have is the present—today. So, take it 24 hours at a time, one day at a time.
Take your time and read the thread below. I hope it helps you on your recovery journey.