I like that your spouse came to you to discuss it bothering her and that you are open to seeing where this journey takes you…
Bravo to you both!
Drinking and alcoholism is a progressive thing. It starts out all okay, a few drinks here or there, then a few every day or too many over the weekends, next thing some of us know years have gone by and we have a full blown serious issue. Taking control of your life and drinking early is so smart.
There are lots of helpful threads and info on here to assist in your journey. This can be a good start…