Grieving over the loss of a pet 😔

I lost my beloved girl last new years eve under horrible circumstances. She was healthy and happy one day, the next she was dying and dead. I couldnt even say goodbye. She was only three and a half years old. She was a force of nature, such a huge, inspiringly good spirit in her little Scottie body. My black diamond I called her. Or little dragon.

I have not forgiven this monstrous absurdity that is death. Fuck death. :fu:t2:

I am not over it and I doubt I’ll ever be. I still cry for her a lot. When I go to sleep I often experience her death again, the horror and shock. Sometimes I scream. I hardly sleep at all since then.

Love love, always. It’s all there is.

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That’s a beautiful urn you got there for him. All mine are in nice wooden boxes. I miss the little sun bather too :cry:

Minnie and The Fox up there in the eternal sun

I love how you got his collar around it.

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I’m sorry about your dog :cry: It is so sad when our fur babies pass. It’s a piece of the family and a dear friend, gone :pensive:

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I am really sorry about your fur baby. I lost my Joplin after 17 years this past July i havent posted or even looked at this site in months because i lost my sobriety right after i lost my girl. Sending you love and healing vibes :sparkles:

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Joplin is such a good name, I hope you cherish sweet memories of your girl!

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I’m so, so sorry for your loss! Do you have a plan for your beloved? Cremation, burial, etc. In the UK, we can also get ashes of our pets and jewellery…I don’t know if you can.
Much love to Rocky and yourself. I’m sure he was so loved. I so wish our best friends lived longer x

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Thanks! Life will never be the same without. I had her nose printed tatted on yesterday

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Very nice! I love the nose print. I did something similar but with my boys paw print. When I am nervous or anxious I touch this spot and it’s like I’m holding his paw again

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Thank you all so very much for your kind word’s. Sorry for the loss of all your pets as well. They really are something special. Love the tattoos! I’ll never forget ole FatHead thats for sure. :people_hugging: :bouquet:

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Thank you yes they sure are!

My previous dog Penny helped save me when my closest friend died of an overdose. I don’t know how I’d have managed without her. When she died it was like I’d lost family.

Now we have Willow and although I’ll always be sad about losing her, time is a great healer. I’d definitely recommend putting your love into a new dog when you are ready. That’s really helped me a lot.

Me & Willow this month-

…and Penny, never forgotten! :heart:

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I myself have had so many loved pets leave this world in my 61 years. Many lived long beyond their life expectancy which I was fortunate to have for so many years. I too am a firm believer of sharing your love and memory in a new pet. Not only does it ease the sadness but you are providing a wonderful loving environment for another who may not get the opportunity to show you love. My opinion only and some people don’t agree with this. My heart goes out to all who lose their pets.

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Wow beautiful pets! Yes you’re exactly right. We found a stray dog a couple months ago. We named her Dalila. She’s been very helpful in this hard time. We also have 2 smaller dog’s to give our love to. Sorry for your loss too. Flowers :bouquet:

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