I had to reset yesterday after 21 days sober, I feel like such a fool as I was doing so well but I ended up drinking a lot of wine and now I can’t remember anything that happened. I feel so low.
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Don’t be so hard on yourself!! This is a disease and not one of us are perfect! You’re a strong person! You decided to get sober and you did it for 21 days… you had a hiccup and that’s ok! Start again my friend 
you can do it!
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21 days is impressive. Do it again! There’s going to be hiccups. Try for 22 this time and keep going. After every relapse try to beat your previous number of sober days. It’s going to happen, you’re human.
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@Scb its only a litle setback , you can do this ! Stay focused, think positive @Oliverjava got some great tools right here for you 
list is not a bad idea. Here is Tons of support .
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Thank you all so much! If I can make it 21 days I’m going to push myself to do even better! I really appreciate all your help and kind words!
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You are not a fool ! And you help me as well thank you for that you are not the only one With sethbacks, earlier i did that too . Tell yourself you are a good and kind person as well 
IT can always be start one for me too. No one knows about tomorrow. But i choose not to drink or use anything today its a high chance im sober tomorrow . Willingness is the Key
I had to reset last weekend after 22 days. I hated to do it but I chalked up as part of our learning process. What I learned is that I don’t miss it and I hate who I am when I’m drinking. No control.
Get up. Dust yourself off. And get back at it.
Failure is going to happen and disappointment will lurk…but you have time for that.
It’s all good. God Bless
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…but you have NO time for that.
Sorry for the typo.
As you Said keep on going, maintaince your focus stay positive you will get back on track be kind to your self