Happy Pride Month - 2019

In celebration of Pride this June, I am going to stay sober, one day at a time.

Below is an article that I wanted to share about the LGBT+ community and substance abuse from the Center on Addiction.

We sometimes see posts here from LGBT+ folks asking whether they are welcome here, or at AA/NA/other groups, or in treatment centers. Although we may feel different, everyone here suffers from the same disease, even if our drugs of choice differ. We all have something to offer each other and gain from each other.

To anyone out there struggling: you are welcome here, and you are not alone.

Happy Pride month, friends, whoever you love and whatever your path :rainbow::rainbow::rainbow::rainbow:


WHY DOES THE LGBT COMMUNITY FACE HIGHER RISK FOR SUBSTANCE ABUSE AND ADDICTION?

Substance use and addiction is a significant problem in the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community. People who identify as LGBT are at a greater risk for substance use and mental health issues compared to those who identify as heterosexual.

More than twice as many LGBT adults compared to heterosexual adults reported using drugs in the past year, according to the latest data from 2015. Those who identified as LGBT were also more likely to smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol and binge drink, and nearly twice as likely to have had an alcohol or drug problem in the past year.

Additionally, LGBT individuals are much more likely than heterosexual individuals to have depression, anxiety or other emotional or behavioral problems and to think about or attempt suicide, all of which increase the risk of substance use.

WHY ARE SUBSTANCE USE RATES SO MUCH HIGHER IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY?

Stress

Members of the LGBT community face chronically high levels of stress. While we have made great strides in gay rights over the last 20 years, many LGBT individuals still have endured a long personal history of social prejudice. This can include discriminatory laws and practices in employment, housing, relationship recognition and health care, as well as stigma and challenges with their family and friends. This type of stress can lead to higher levels of anxiety, fear, isolation, depression, anger and mistrust, which can increase the risk of self-medicating with tobacco, alcohol and other drugs.

Limited Treatment Services for LGBT People

Addiction treatment facilities are often unable to meet the unique needs of LGBT people. A national study found that of the 854 treatment programs that reported to have specialized treatment services for LGBT people, only 62 confirmed these services actually existed during a telephone follow-up. This means that about 70 percent of the addiction treatment services noted as specialized for LGBT people were really no different from those provided to non-LGBT people.

Potential Discrimination in Addiction Treatment

In addition to limited specialized services, LGBT individuals may be reluctant to seek treatment or disclose their sexual orientation during treatment out of concern that treatment providers might be unaware of their specific needs or might be hostile to them. Stigma, intolerance and open discrimination are the most substantial barriers to substance use prevention and treatment in the LGBT community.

IMPROVING ADDICTION TREATMENT FOR LGBT INDIVIDUALS

LGBT alumni from various addiction treatment programs identified the need to improve treatment for LGBT individuals with addiction by offering separate units or facilities that are welcoming to them and their allies and treatment that is provided by LGBT and/or LGBT-affirming staff.

Just as efforts have been made to tailor addiction treatment based on sex, age, and cultural background, more needs to be done to ensure that LGBT individuals, who face unique challenges and a long history of stigma and discrimination, receive the care they need and deserve.

ADRIANNA MALDONADO, M.A., ED.M.

Adrianna Maldonado is a research associate at Center on Addiction

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Thank you for sharing this
:hugs::heart::orange_heart::yellow_heart::green_heart::blue_heart::purple_heart::hugs:

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Great share. I pray that some day, we will just all live as humans, with acceptance for who we are and acceptance for who others are. That we see people for their mind and their heart. That we love each other as my Higher Power has directed us to do, “This is my new commandment, to love one anothet as I love you”.

May there be peace, and growth this Pride month.

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This happened in London

Prides so important and hopefully might teach the Neanderthals about Love, respect and unity! :heart::orange_heart::yellow_heart::green_heart::blue_heart::purple_heart::black_heart::rainbow_flag::rainbow_flag::rainbow_flag:

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Thanks for sharing Darren - that news has been weighing heavy on my heart all day, as London was my home for the majority of my adult life.

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It’s so sad and scary, that’s why LGBTQ education should be put into children’s education from a young age

This could have quite easily have been my sister and her girlfriend. In the 21st century people still shout in the street and stare when they hold hands, so sad :roll_eyes:

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We just had a conversation about this. My youngest said someone was saying something about having a straight month. For straight people. My comment was that we should have a humanity month to celebrate our similarities not our differences!
My eldest is gay, and goes to London pride so her sister is really up on it.
We have some great conversations sometimes, she’s quite switched on for a 13 year old.

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Just today, there was a comment from my own mother on a news story where there are 3 men promoting a “straight pride” walk, where people think that it’s “fair” they get a parade too. If one gets it, the other must too-we have our rights too. Blah blah blah. Edit: The courts agree, legally.

But to me, that comment from @DarrenUK

is EXACTLY why it’s different.

That’s a great idea @anon12657779, I was thinking something super similar as I read the article earlier! Like a we are united pride!

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My children are on loan from the universe. They are fascinating and loving and complex as can be. One’s straight, one’s trans, one’s gay. Not exactly what my strict religious upbringing prepared me for. Thank goodness I became an alcoholic who got sober in AA in Burlington, VT! That’s what helped me let go of my ego-pride. Love is love, people are people. :rainbow:

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THIS!! Gave me chills sir, thank you :yellow_heart:

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A simple phrase with so much power. Something, I hope more people learn sooner than later.

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Well, every month is straight month, since straightness is so dominate in our cultures. Every day is straight day. It is a good learning opportunity for your little on why pride is so important to have celebrated this month.

In short, straight people flaunt their straightness all day, every day, they hold hands, kiss in public with no issues. Movies, TV shows represent straight people all the time. And despite the narrative that the “gays” are taking over, for a majority of LGBT+ people, it is still incredibly uncomfortable at best, dangerous at worst to express themselves in our communities. In a majority of states across the US their rights and dignity are not fully protected by the law, and, in fact, there are fierce movements that seek to oppress and marginalize LGBT+ people.

So, while we have seen tremendous progress in the fight for LGBT+ equality, inclusion, and rights, the reality is that LGBT+ are incredibly far from being fully equal in every realm of society. And that is why pride is so important.

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Aww…Burlington! Lived in Chittenden County for almost 30 years (Underhill mostly). Miss VT so much since we moved a few years ago.

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Sassy, I totally agree, I wasn’t saying a straight month, I’m saying humanity, regardless of race, creed gender. I’m not standing up for either side. I’m just saying we should celebrate every one no matter who we are. As I said, I have a daughter who is gay, a niece who is now a nephew and I hate the fact that certain people are not allowed to express themselves.
To be perfectly honest with you, I’m tired of the way that humanity is behaving towards each other and their planet. I would gladly become a hermit

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No worries, just suggesting it was a good teaching moment on every day being straight day and the need for pride month.

Yeah I think you may have misunderstood my post my Youngster was saying about what she had heard someone else say. She more gened up on this than I am. She has taught me a lot. Bearing in mind when I grew up peoples attitudes were all wrong.
I’m just upset that we have to see the difference to help people recognise this whole thing. I’m a good guy!

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I wasn’t attacking you. :slight_smile: Perhaps I misunderstood what you wrote. No worries.

Cool!!.:star_struck:
I’ll stay out of this debate in future. Just know that I’m personally happy for people to be people.

I’m suddenly thinking about the Dépêche Mode song People are People. While we have come so far from the violence of the 70s and 80s it still amazes me how far we still have to go.

Still, I am daily amazed by just how supportive my kids are. Heck, it isn’t even “support”…it just IS. It’s like it just doesn’t make a difference to them. Both put themselves on the rainbow but neither pick a specific label. They just know they are not cis-straight. But I think they think that NO ONE is 100% cis-straight. I love how they view the world.

I have a lot of hope that in time the whole world world becomes so inclusive.

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I don’t care if a person is gay, straight, or in between, black, white, purple, or green, we are ALL beautiful beings!! Happy Pride month!:rainbow_flag:

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