Hey everyone, I’m brand new here, so I’ll tell you a bit about my past…
I’m now four days clean. Alcohol has been my substance of choice. I’ve never been an everyday drinker. More like a couple days a week (2-3 on average) however when I did drink, I couldn’t stop at two or three beers. It’s often 8-12 minimum.
So far, it hasn’t caused a ton of immediate problems in my life. I’ve typically reserved it for weekends, although there has been a couple of workdays I’ve been super hungover. No DUI’s or family problems… at least not yet. Call me a functioning alcoholic if you will.
Nevertheless, I’ve come to the realization that I need to get a grip on drinking before it becomes a problem or gets out of control. I think the best choice is to cut it out completely.
My trigger is definitely stress. I’ve got an incredibly stressful job. Either I’ll begin drinking on a particularly stressful weeknight and won’t stop, or wait till the weekend, hammer a few dozen drinks, and be hungover feeling horrible the entire weekend.
I honestly don’t know any other ways to handle the stress. I’ve been doing this for so long. The problem with alcohol is that it provides and immediate (albeit temporary) solution when nothing else does.
Had a horrible day today. Pulled into my driveway, then pulled right out and went to the liquor store. Didn’t go in. Instead came home and now I’m writing this.
Can somebody give me a few ideas on positive ways they handle stress? I really need some help here… thanks in advance, this seems like a very helpful group.
Great job not going in the store. That took some strength.
Asking for help is not always easy, I’m glad you reached out
What do I do?
Read
Walk
Drink tea
Anything outside
Watch tv
Clean
Listen to murder mystery podcasts
Play on my phone
Meditate/yoga (not often enough)
Talk to my friends/family
Go to a meeting
Some people
Write draw listen/play music
Hike
Cook
Shower
Join a class
Nap
Anything you used to enjoy
Sorry about your stressful day
Tomorrow will be better
Gym, walking and eating healthy Meditation and being king to yourself. Works for me along with changing lifestyle and thinking patterns. Also keeping busy.
If your job is that stressful maybe it’s time for s career change?
Best stress management for me is breathwork, specifically the Wim Hof Method. Cold showers reduce anxiety. Exercise. Health food. Plenty of sleep. No toxins in the body as much as you can help it…