Hello, sharing my story

Hello all, I’m new here.

I’ve been addicted to shopping my whole life. I shop for everything: clothes, shoes, gifts for others, plants, art, jewelry, craft suppies, groceries, etc.

I am turning 31 next week and I have never had any savings in my life. I support my habit by taking out personal and payday loans. Due to my poor credit, my interest rates are in the hundreds. I’m paying back thousands to borrow hundreds. I’ve already had to file bankruptcy once. I refuse to do it again.

With the help of my partner I recently started the 12-step narcotics anonymous program, we are just substituting shopping/spending
for drugs. My mom is also a great support for me. The three of us meet weekly and cover my budget and expenses and set a realistic goal for spending and saving.

I am currently reading 2 self help books about spending and addiction.

I’m happy to have found this app and all of you lovely people. I hope to continue to grow and heal here.

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Welcome! I’m glad you found us. Sounds like you got some great support from your partner and mom. I work a 12 step program too for alcohol and drugs. I personally think anyone can benefit from it. A 10th step just helped me get through an issue I was having with a coworker unrelated to addiction.
This forum is another tool to help you on your journey. Wishing you the best and looking forward to reading more about your progress. :innocent:

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Awesome! Congrats on the steps in the right direction! :heart:

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Hi, nice to meet you. Sounds like you’ve got a solid plan in place and support from your family.
Wishing you well :sparkling_heart:

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