Help... Need encouragement and support tonight

Thank you. It’s so true. Mindset is everything. Not just in sobriety. Every aspect of our lives :pray:

Great job! You held strong. :muscle:t3::heart:

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Thank you :heart:

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I was very good at drinking when the going was good. I was thinking I drank because I didn’t deserve happiness. Saying I couldn’t “handle happiness” is putting it another way. Similar idea but a little different.

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Well done! Hope you feel very proud of yourself - as you should!

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I do ! I definitely need to keep this mentality. Today was a great day. Not hungover. Woke up happy.

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This! I’ve tried to talk about this with people and you put it perfectly.

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This is amazing!!! You did it and just like you don’t this time you can choose to do it again :wink:. So happy for you. I can feel the joy!

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Can I tell you have brave you are to be so honest and reach out.
Badass.
Sending you strength, personally I think u have half the battle beat.
For me it’s all in your mind Nd the facts your so open and honest and reached out , you got this .
Seriously . I’m proud of you

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I’ve been a server atva very busy bar since I got sober 82 days ago. It’s tough at first for sure! I would always drink at work and after and before… but now I see people getting trashed and it’s a reminder that I was worse then they are, and they are not attractive drunks. Also since I’m use to the bar atmosphere it has helped with other social situations while not drinking. I’ll go to other bars with friends and have some tacos and a lemonade and when it starts getting rowdy I dip out, because I can drive my car. Sober. Good luck to you, hope this was helpful!

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That’s great! Good work! I’m really glad for you.

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Thank you so much everyone for the encouragement and kind words. I am definitely proud of myself and it feels good to know other people are too.
Still clean today :heart:

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