Frickin hell breezy that’s crazy I could not go on a pub crawl 
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My husband and I met as drinking buddies. I’m two plus years sober and he still drinks daily. In the beginning it was rough. Our dynamic changed a lot as I became more of a homebody and he wished I was still drinking a few times.
Now, 2 years out he sees all the positive changes I’ve made and just recently told me he thinks I really never should have another drink. I agree.
Put yourself first here and stick with it. If you can honestly say that your life isn’t better after a year sober reevaluate then. Stick with it, it is tough but you aren’t alone. 🩷
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No that is not the case. I will refer to the first post, that people who have the problem associate it with the only one “having fun”
I would retort with “nah, I am just as much fun without the alcohol.” or “I am a fun person without the added toxins”
It is not you, I went through this with my ex… I couldn’t associate with it as it was a threat to my recovery. BUT that isn’t always the case if he is a good partner he will understand and respect the boundaries that you set. The biggest piece of advice I could give is to be CLEAR AND DIRECT with those boundaries so this type of thing doesn’t happen again.
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