I am in need of Help

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Ive read a whole thread once about this…

19 Years post Gastric Bypass and 19 Years alcoholic

Where do I start? I’ve always been an overachiever in my adult life. Mostly because I had been told I wasn’t good enough during my childhood. Fast forward to age 30, Mother of four sons, degreed, upward mobility in my career, military wife(abusive alcoholic self centered husband), lovely two story home, etc. Alcohol was not a big deal to me and drank sparingly. Life goals have been achieved! However, I was overweight. I opted to have a gastic bypass surgery because that’s what I needed to be per…