I cant seem to stay sober. Everytime I get through detox I am so happy and great and then I have a drink

Oh man how he does. He has had two duis and he has had to go through the steps and all with drinking. He has hid bottles from me too. We both used to be so functioning and never hid anything from eachother.

Ah, so it sounds like his attitude to your sobriety is him denying that he has a problem himself.
My wife knows that she has a problem she is a heavy binge drinker. But because I don’t drink, she hasn’t drunk at home for over 3 months. And even then she has only been out 2/3 times in that time.

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I am usually so normal but when I get on my bendersbim like a gang animal!! Its just not right.

The worst part is that I think I’m a genuinely nice person and people seem to like me ok but I have issues with anxiety which I just found out myself. I thought I was depressed but it is the anxiety that is hurting me and helping me to drink.

This is my experience also find it wast to put down but not stay stopped