I’m new here and need support

Hi! My first time here. I’m at my absolute lowest with my alcohol issues. They are literally RUINING MY LIFE…if inkeep this up, I really feel like I’ll end up dead or in jail. I know that sounds dramatic but it’s gotten really bad. Please pray for me that I can finally give up this behavior and heal. I want to bear this addition so badly.

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Welcome to the forum. Your story is similar to many who have passed through here. Prayers are good, but actions add up to the answer you are looking for.

What is your plan to get sober and stay sober?

If you’re not sure, pray for inspiration and take a look around the forum for resources, ideas, and the stories of others like yourself.

I wish you the best and again, welcome.

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Hello, nice to meet you :wave:
There is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to sobriety, but on this forum you will meet so many people, each with their own unique story and life experience. Read around, check-in, take part and you will be able to fill your own toolbox for your sober journey.
Welcome to the family, I hope to see you around.
:squid::heartbeat:

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Welcome to the community :raising_hand_woman:

It’s full of supportive people here, keep reading and reaching out.
I’m glad you found us :people_hugging:

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Is today Day 1? How is it going?

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Welcome. I think many people here know exactly how you feel. And it isn’t being dramatic, many people do end up in jail, or dead. I personally needed a ‘program’ a regular schedule of things to do to work on myself to get sober.

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Same here, at my lowest with alcohol. I’ve been here a few times before but only lasted a few days before I was drinking again. It was always after I started feeling better after a several day hangover and told myself that I could just slow down. I could control it now that I didn’t feel the need for the “hair of the dog” to help me function through the hangover. But obviously I can’t control it. Maybe I thought I was for the first few days but then I was back to drinking to the point of passing out all the time. I have been missing a lot of work and of course lying of why. I have taken little airplane bottles to work just to help the hangover from the night before. I was lying to my husband and my marriage has been in jeopardy. I’m at day five right now but that is about the longest I remember going before relapsing.

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@SuzeQ22 welcome to the community. Lots of support here and advice. Keep showing up.

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Welcome! We are here to support you!

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Yesterday was very rough. Not because I craved a drink, in fact the opposite. I felt so sad, low and I’m sure was going thru a hangover/withdrawal symptoms. I couldn’t eat a single thing all day. My stomach was in knots. I also suffer back anxiety, so that was in major effect. Today I woke up feeling that same :frowning: Was hoping today with no alcohol yesterday, that I’d feel better. Not so much. I just want to crawl up and sleep for a week. A pot in my stomach that injust can’t shake. HOWEVER, I’m going strong and intend to continue to. Thanks for checking in.

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You sound JUST like me. I hope you stayed strong. I hope I can too. It’s gotten to the point where it HAS to stop. Best of luck to you. I believe in you.

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I hope you managed another Day? Staying strong is the hardest thing. Keep supporting yourself.

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:wave: ive been following this app for a week now. I love all the support on here. Thanks for the welcome :grin:

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This app is great. The mountain to sobriety seems steep but its about creating a goid community and trusting the proccess.

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