I started where I was, in jail again. No matter the external conditions, I knew in my heart that I was really done. But it took me almost 20 years from my first attempt to quit at 27 until I got sober. But that night in jail I knew I was done. It became my mission to get to bed sober each night no matter what. Along the way, I used Antabuse and counseling and AA and intensive outpatient treatment.
Only you can look within yourself and answer the question " Are you done yet.". If the answer is Yes, nothing can stop you. When my answer was No, nothing could help me.
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