I was in this app a couple years back. I gave up drinking for awhile. I started again and left. Well… not im back. This past weekend i ruined my life. I was drinking and taking shots. Alcohol took over and my wife got into an arguement. That arguement led to my father in law and i get into a little tussle. At this point, my marriage is practually over, my family is broken and im stuck. I take full responsibility for the next oitcome of my marriage. I cant blame alcohol, i blame myself for picking it up and putting it to my lips, instead of backing down
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Welcome back! Any plans on what you are going to do to enhance your sobriety this time?
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It’s a reset. You can do it. Find a 12 step meeting for your DOC. Some people use Smart Recovery. I’m know you’ll get other suggestions, too.
It’s a daily program. Stick with the winners.
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Alcohol will take everything and then come back for you, all you can do is show your wife action instead of words, use this as your rock bottom and the only way is up, show her that you are sorry by actually doing something no matter what it is good luck
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Nothing to loose try ameeting might help you gain wish you well
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Just keep my wife and family on my mind. Also get with a couselor, when i get an urge, go walk. Anything to keep my mind busy
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Welcome back, I’m sorry to hear about what happened but maybe that is the rock bottom you needed to kickstart your sobriety again.
Glad you’re here!
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Hey buddy! I’m glad you chose to come back here for support. That’s a bad bottom, but believe it that there are lower bottoms to hit if you don’t get and stay sober. Quitting drinking doesn’t typically last without a complete 180 in lifestyle and lots of support. Glad you came back.
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Ask for forgiven, again, again, again…and do not drink. If your wife does not forgive you, unless you are sober. Nevertheless I am sure, do not drink could help to fix issues.
Best regards!
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Only one way out—up. Alcohol isn’t done taking things from you. You’re at a major crossroads here. It’s either alcohol or your family because it looks like the two can’t mix again without major disappointment and consequences. Alcohol doesn’t care what you decide. But your family does. Alcohol doesn’t heal you. But family can. We all say 1 day at a time around here because little increments of massive effort go a long way. Forgiveness works the same way too.
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Hey we’ve all been there.
Better stop now before you end up a lonely old man.
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As terrible as it feels, you’ve just been given an opportunity to change your life and learn from this. Use this pain. Be the person you know you can be. Sober life will always equal a better life. Get sober, apologize - without expectations - and just do your best to show the ppl you love that you love them 
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I gave it up. Havent thought about a sip or even buying. Just dealing with the withdrawls but im managing. Since ive came back into here, jumped into a support group and joined virtual AA meetings. My wife has came back around and has been a backbone to me
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I am SOOO glad you checked back in. Keep reading The Promises. Sobriety in Recovery is a gift.
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So glad to hear that your wife is in your corner. Congratulations on the new chapter in your life you get to write!