This shit is fucking hard. I relapsed tonight. What do I do when I don’t have anyone. I’m married and yet I feel so alone. I need you all more than you know.
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Hey there. This shit is hard. No doubt about it. What have you tried in the past? Have you gone to any type of meetings or support groups? Support is key. Hang in there.
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It’s so hard I am definitely alone in this it really takes a lot but I think it’s worth i feel like a different person this week.
Try A.A. Find a sponsor. Fellowship of A.A. will completely understand you. There will be someone there that will listen.
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This meeting situation is dead in Newport news. Virginia. The meeting’s that are available are in a super red flags zone.
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I don’t want to live this way.
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If your partner doesn’t have addiction issues then it is very hard for them to understand. And if they DO have addiction issues, then that would be very difficult in its own way. Please share here! And definitely look into support groups.
You don’t have to. Have you looked into online? There are meetings happening right now you could jump into.
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She doesn’t get high at all. It’s like she doesn’t want me to get better.
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Why do you think that is? People who deal with addicts have their own issues, resentments, etc. Alanon is a group that supports people who deal with addicts. Maybe your partner could join those meetings? Or you could read up and try to understand what is going on with them?
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I thought id never get through day 1… Im day 9 tommorow and it isnt easy its about breaking down the day every 15mins…i crave alot but i know it wont kill me etc… I know the last time i got drunk all the guilt n shame was more painful n stressful than not drinking
Hope your ok… I didn’t see a way out for me
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I’m ok, besides the shame and guilt. I have to take it one minute at a time. Thank you
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Thats near VA. Beach ??
https://aavirginia.org/meetings/?tsml-day=any&tsml-region=virginia-beach