I 
understand, but here is the dilemma:
If you are referring to my move, there isn’t anyone to help me here in WV. And, I cannot afford to hire movers. However, I could ask some more people in OH—but it’s amazing how many people suddenly injured their backs when asked!
But, I appreciate the get over yourself approach. At first I was taken back, as I didn’t intend to sound pitiful. Then I spent the evening (and most of this morning) cogitating on your words and found them sound. I had been wallowing in self-pity. Thank you for shaking me out.