My (soon to be ex-) wife just said this to me.
I was shocked.
As an adult, I have to do shit even if I don’t want to. I don’t want to constantly pick up after her, but I do because if I leave it, it’ll pile up.
I don’t want to pay bills. But, I also want water and power…so…
I realized that she’s actually an incredibly immature and toxic person.
If you want to feel better about your marriage and read the slow breakdown of mine, my “journal” is ICanAndWill’s Touchstone 