Absolutely not! My reply wasn’t about the fact that she was hot, it was about someone wanting him. I’m all for friends but boundaries need to be set especially when this friend may have ulterior motives in mind.
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It looks like from the thread that so far you have continued to say no and not drink. Reread all the yuck things are going on in your life and then add a bunch of drinking and a drinking you in the middle of that… It just makes for more bad.
Stay sober through all of this and you will be able to deal with it all better.
I’m sorry you have so much hard going on.
I’m sorry that you feel sad and confused, it’s understandable. Reach out where you can for support and love.
If you can get together with some girlfriends and talk that would be nice for you. If you could get a counselor to go to that would be nice for you.
Drinking would just make everything worse.
Thinking about you and hoping that things will get better.
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I read your last update. Just wsnt to say I am tjinking abput yoh and all you are going through. I apologize if I spoke to heavily on things in your relationship, it should not have been the topic I honed in on.
I hope right noe you can find an outlet for you when you feel fhat energy. Keep coming here, write, run - whatever you need to do. Xo. We’re here.
I’m sorry you are going thru all these things. I do agree that boundaries are being crossed in certain areas.
However, there’s nothing so bad that drinking won’t make it worse.
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