Just another thing I'm grateful for

Merry (early) Christmas everyone! I love christmas time. Please know, i am very respectful of every religious belief, I’m something of an eclectic spirutualist myself, so to those who dont celebrate christmas i wish you the happiest version of your holiday, and if youre not relgious in any way- i hope you have a fantastic day off of work! :slight_smile:

I know the holidays can be really hard for a lot of people for a variety of reasons, and sobriety can be hard to manage. To those of you missing a loved one, those that are lonely, those who have traumatic or bad holiday memories, those of you who have seasonal shitty depression: youre valued, loved and not alone. If youre working through something that the holidays are triggering, dont give up. Hold your sobriety close to your heart and dont let it go. I’m always here to talk if anyone needs it.

Last year was my first sober christmas as an adult. It was hard. My family DRINKS for the holidays. But it was also the first christmas my fiance and i had where we didnt fight and ruin it. I’m so excited to have that again. Here is our Christmas card this year.

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Merry christmas lady!!! Beautiful post and beautiful christmas card u have there :slight_smile:

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I try to celebrate the holidays not by drinking as before, but by the reason or meaning behind it.

E.G., Thanksgiving was gratitude, Christmas was for giving, New Years was every day having a new sober shot at life, Easter for rebirth, Memorial Day for remembering those of us who succumbed to the addiction, Labor Day for working a program of recovery.

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:christmas_tree::pray::heart_hands:thanks for your wonderful words and all best wishes for you and your family :mx_claus:

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I feel like the “first sober _____” can be scary but also a great way to analyze yourself and others, and to see if you really liked something or just liked the drinking involved. It also feels amazing once you get through it!

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Omg i love that!!! Good thought process :heart:

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