Just, here

7 years ago I stopped drinking for 3 months. I’m a binge drinker with too much ambition. I’m also a cook so food and drink have been my life. But life can be difficult and the drink part can be soothing. I know I am capable of having A,1,singular, drink but there are times when I just fall straight down a hole solely out of habit. The consistency of the activity is comforting but it’s always the after math of thing that’s the problem. I’ve explored over 200 different types of beer and a variety of whiskeys, scotches, heck, I used to sell mushroom infused vodka (shits dank). I enjoy the flavor more than I do the alcohol part to be honest. I can’t enjoy any of it anymore tho cuz I just send myself in a spiral cuz life is hard and I’m tired. I still cook with alcohol. The smell of the alcohol cooking off brings me comfort and then I can just enjoy the aromas and flavors it provides.

I strongly believe in moderation. I know that when I go too far it’s going to cause an imbalance in me and I dislike that.

Sometimes life sends us reeling and we don’t know what to do about it so as creatures of habit we gravitate to what we think we know and what we think we can control. I lose appreciation for myself the most when I’m hungover, sometimes for up to 3 days.

It’s day 15. 5 days to 20. Gosh I want a drink SO BAD but then I start to get anxiety cuz I officially associate alcohol with something bad is gonna happen. Idk if I’m taking a break or if I am in this is for the long hall. All I know is that I’m regular tired which is alot easier to deal with than being regular tired and tired from selfdestructing. I appreciate this about myself.

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I was a binge drinker too but started drinking every day. I havent lost my house or car or family (yet) but i dont want to. So what im saying is we all have our bottom. Only you can decide when you have had enough. Its been only 42 days since my last drink but i do feel so much better and life is better too. Im taking it one day at a time, going to meetings help ground me and i try to replay the tape in my head if im tempted to pick up again. I was tired of not remembering what i did or said when drinking and i try to remember how i felt the next morning filled with regret. So you too will find your bottom and decide when its time to quit. Life is better without the poison of alcohol. I realize im different than the normal people. I cant just have one.

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Thank you Liz for joining me here as a binger and congrats on your 42 days. I’m anxious with anticipation to make it that far. We can do this! Let’s not lose anymore than we already have <3

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Im the definition of a binge drinker. When i start the is no stopping me for days on end. I only have 1 option and that i cant drink a sip. My detoxes are out if the world difficult. I cant believe im alive.

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