Looking for some advice for a problem I am having

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I feel like I’m in like a rock and a hard place as they say I know it’s probably not that bad you guys are probably thinking but

I stop for a while then picked up again and then stopped and now my husband wants to do the very same thing that I stop

But I can handle it but my husband doesn’t do very well and thing is I don’t want our son seeing him or me doing it but especially him doing it because The way he acts when he does it I don’t really like it at all and to be honest it’s kinda triggering for me when I see him doing it because of our past with it we kinda don’t get along because I try to tell him what lt dose to me when I see him doing it but thing is I feel like he doesn’t care so I’m trying to go a different way about it like tell him he’s his own person and he can make his own decision and things like that

Hopeing at some point he stops forever but I now with addiction it takes time but still I’m gust kinda tired of feeling like my feelings aren’t valid when it comes to his addiction does anyone have advice for this kinda thing because I’m lost I love him don’t get me wrong but I can’t really deal with his addiction it’s gust to triggering for me sometimes

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The only advice I can give you is to not be dragged down by his using get yourself in a positive mindset for you,at that time . keep picking up the tools you have gained and go and do something with your son so you don’t have to sit in the madness. I personally know how hard it is to watch someone else’s addiction now that I’m sober so I feel your sadness and frustration :people_hugging:

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