I love this! Thanks Sassy 
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I love this one! My favorite being âitâs not a competitionâ.
It doesnât help at all when people minimize my feelings by telling me âsomeone else has it worseâ. 
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Another sign of social anxiety Iâd seen elsewhere was, âyou make up scenarios in your head where you get embarrassedâ.
I thought I was the only one who does that!
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Anyone would be frustrated and feeling off after such a rocky start. We beat ourselves up over so much. One thing I keep reading lately is when our mind starts with all that, respond as you would to a friendâŚif a friend told you that interview story, would you focus on what they may have done wrong? Nope, you would praise their initiative in working thru the snafu, build them up, etc. 
Insecure is a normal response. Plus, getting used to video interviews, not in person, can be a process.
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In Portugal the usage of every drug was decriminalised and the money saved from punishing people and policing usage was invested in reintegration of people into society with incentives. Drug abuse, hospitalisations and drug deaths plummeted.
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In my experience interviewers donât judge only on the first few minutes, but on the entire interview. When I went to the interview for my current job the interviewer asked me:âWho is Janâ. I was unprepared and blurted out:âI am Jan and Iâm an addictâ. I thought I was done for when I saw his face. I told him that Iâm in recovery and everything. He saw the big picture and gave me a chance. Iâm certain your interviewer will see the big picture and not only the rocky start. And otherwise screw that guy, heâs not suited to be an interviewer
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Feeling this tonight.
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I just have to say Iâm absolutely loving this thread and am so thankful it was started. Just FAN-FREAKING-TASTIC!!
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You may enjoy this one as wellâŚ
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Thank you so much for starting this thread. 
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Yes they do, thank you my friend.
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Thank you! 
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I love this. A night time inventory as described to me in recovery always sounded like never ending negativity. I have always argued for appreciating successes as well as learning from experience.
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