The man doesn’t know that there is a snake underneath. The woman doesn’t know that there is a stone crushing the man.
The woman thinks: “I am going to fall! And I can’t climb because the snake is going to bite me! Why can’t the man use a little more strength and pull me up!”
The man thinks: “I am in so much pain! Yet I’m still pulling you as much as I can! Why don’t you try and climb a little harder!?”
The moral is— you can’t see the pressure the other person is under, and the other person can’t see the pain you’re in. This is life, whether it’s with work, family, feelings or friends, we should try to understand each other.
Learn to think differently, perhaps more clearly and communicate better. A little thought and patience goes a long way.
~ Author Unknown
Let someone love you just the way you are …
as flawed as you might be,
as unattractive as you sometimes feel,
as unaccomplished as you think you are.
To believe you must hide all the parts of you that are broken,
out of fear that someone else is incapable of loving what is less than perfect,
is to believe that sunlight is incapable of entering a broken window and illuminating a dark room.
— Iain S. Thomas
My psychiatrist told me something that will always stick with me: acknowledge the situation, hit the rest button and move forward.