My boyfriend got baptized recently and is now having second thoughts about us. I’m not taking it well and my first thought was I want to use so I don’t have to feel this. Anything helpful you guys have for me?
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You know to use will not help anything just to make you feel even worse afterwards I sorry to hear of your situation but we can’t control others, wishing you well
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Welcome to the community 
Don’t use!
Come here and vent here, it is full of such supportive people here and I’m glad you found us.
Using will likely push someone away not closer 
Sorry you are going through this 
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Sounds like he wants you to change to his new specifications? Resist, and abandon himif you have to…but don’t use. Come here, use online or in person self help to vent and get support.
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Try the Serenity Prayer, in particular the things you can change in this situation (pro tip, you can only change your attitude), and a making a list of things you are grateful for about him.
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