New to community. 20yr old young man, looking for accountability partner / my story. Please read

Hey who ever is reading this, I’m not new to the app but I am new to the community although I do read a lot of posts on here. You guys all seem great, anyways I struggle with compulsive sexual behavior & I would like to find someone that can check in with me & hold me to my commitments & help me achieve my goals. I am also willing to do the same for said person or persons in return. I am over 100+ days free from porn, but had a mild setback last night ( no porn ) but I got caught up in thirst trap TikTok videos & some sensual ASMR both on YouTube. I also MO last night, in a very compulsive not at all healthy way. So I am looking to quit MO for the next 90 days, I have abstained for 30 days twice since I’ve been off porn. The first time abstaining for 50 days. Second time exactly 30. This time since my slip up, I am looking to do a full reboot, in order to get myself back on track & avoid any further risky activity that could lead me back to what I’m trying to quit. So these are my goals, this is where I’m at, & I just want someone to help me stay committed to this goal for the next 90 days. I will greatly appreciate anybody that responds, & is willing to help me out. Thank you to anybody that read this, & who didn’t judge me while reading. I have “quit” many times before, the longest being for over a year. But certain things in my life caused me to fall down, & take big steps back. I am trying to gain those steps back again & reclaim my freedom, as I have before & know I can do again. This time for good.

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There’s a few gentleman that have a PMO thread that can be helpful for you, I would take a peek and see what’s in it for you.

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PMO - Porn, Masturbation, Recovery

Hello friend, this is the most active PMO thread. Welcome to the family, and I hope that we can offer you what you are looking for. Though my primary compulsive behavior right now is also sexual compulsive behavior I am not in a good place to be an accountability partner at the moment. Please keep a positive outlook though, there are a lot of us!

@BeardedSandMan @Pathtofreedom @KevinesKay @SelfLove_42

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Thank you Jelly!! Way to be a light in the darkness! :fire::fire::fire:

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Yessir we will offer whatever assistance we can!

@Logansalgado welcome and glad you are here. I am 8 months sober from compulsive use of on line porn. Went to rehab, doing a group amd feeling successful in my recovery program. Also studying to be an addiction counselor in college. Feel free to reach out if you need help or accountability.
Best,
Don

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Thank you for posting the thread, I appreciate it. & I really appreciate your straight forward honesty. I wish you the best in your journey, & I hope you get to a place where all is well with you. :muscle:t3: