Hey who ever is reading this, I’m not new to the app but I am new to the community although I do read a lot of posts on here. You guys all seem great, anyways I struggle with compulsive sexual behavior & I would like to find someone that can check in with me & hold me to my commitments & help me achieve my goals. I am also willing to do the same for said person or persons in return. I am over 100+ days free from porn, but had a mild setback last night ( no porn ) but I got caught up in thirst trap TikTok videos & some sensual ASMR both on YouTube. I also MO last night, in a very compulsive not at all healthy way. So I am looking to quit MO for the next 90 days, I have abstained for 30 days twice since I’ve been off porn. The first time abstaining for 50 days. Second time exactly 30. This time since my slip up, I am looking to do a full reboot, in order to get myself back on track & avoid any further risky activity that could lead me back to what I’m trying to quit. So these are my goals, this is where I’m at, & I just want someone to help me stay committed to this goal for the next 90 days. I will greatly appreciate anybody that responds, & is willing to help me out. Thank you to anybody that read this, & who didn’t judge me while reading. I have “quit” many times before, the longest being for over a year. But certain things in my life caused me to fall down, & take big steps back. I am trying to gain those steps back again & reclaim my freedom, as I have before & know I can do again. This time for good.
There’s a few gentleman that have a PMO thread that can be helpful for you, I would take a peek and see what’s in it for you.
PMO - Porn, Masturbation, Recovery
Hello friend, this is the most active PMO thread. Welcome to the family, and I hope that we can offer you what you are looking for. Though my primary compulsive behavior right now is also sexual compulsive behavior I am not in a good place to be an accountability partner at the moment. Please keep a positive outlook though, there are a lot of us!
Thank you Jelly!! Way to be a light in the darkness!
Yessir we will offer whatever assistance we can!
@Logansalgado welcome and glad you are here. I am 8 months sober from compulsive use of on line porn. Went to rehab, doing a group amd feeling successful in my recovery program. Also studying to be an addiction counselor in college. Feel free to reach out if you need help or accountability.
Best,
Don
Thank you for posting the thread, I appreciate it. & I really appreciate your straight forward honesty. I wish you the best in your journey, & I hope you get to a place where all is well with you.