Phone addiction advice

Hello! Im posting this looking for advice on staying sober from phone addiction. The longest I’ve had a healthy phone use for was 2 weeks. I consider healthy phone use just using it for texts, weather, checking bank acct, emails, etcetera. I once again fell off and it happened so quickly where all of a sudden I was on my phone every chance I got. It’s led me to be so much more anxious and tired lately.

Any advice on the boundaries and recovery plan that may have worked for you?

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In my early days of sobriety I switched to a flip phone. Just calls and old-fashioned SMS texts with the numeric phone keyboard. No media, nothing fancy, just an old school phone. (The phone plan is a lot cheaper too with non-smart-phones.)

It helped me. Over time I learned that my addiction was an internal problem and when I started working on that, the external stuff (including the tech I was using) didn’t worry me any more.

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I am not sure exactly which APPS are bsst but I have heard of apps that act as a timer for phone use, and maybe this could be customized to certain apps? I have found deleting apps off my phone that dont serve me to be helpful too :slight_smile: the phones are a hard one! Best of luck to you xo.

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I think this is a thread that @Mno started. Maybe you’ll find it helpful?
:heart::pray:

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I was just going to mention that thread, Patty!

@Mauvaisminou, check it out. I signed up and so far it’s been great.

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Oh gosh I feel like technology and eating disorders are so tough. So many other addictions- chemical and behavior- one can abstain. But technology and food, you HAVE to moderate. The question is, how the heck does one moderate an addiction? I think it comes to holding hard to healthy boundaries. Schedule and keep careful count of the time. Get some support and arm yourself with knowledge and definitely counseling :heart:

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Im trying to get rid of instagram and whatsapp addiction. I cant just delete the accounts because I need whatsapp to talk with people and colleagues (sms is not popular in my country) and in instagram I have just precious photos of my family.

So just locked a lot of conversations on whatsapp and let only half dozen REALLY IMPORTANT AND CLOSE people on the main screen.

I deleted the app of instagram and will make my best for not reinstalling it.

Turn off the notifications ages ago. Also I just read a tip here in ST to put the phone in black and white and changed to it. Today is day 1 lets see how it goes

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Why not move the photos from Instagram back onto your phone via screenshots? Then back then up via a cloud service and then get rid of Instagram

because it lose resolution when screenshot is took. The definition is not so good if you want to print em later. Also I have backup of many of the pictures but not ALL. and I dont like using clouds Im a bit of old school and do backup on my pc but it takes time, I do it like every 6 months.

forgot to mention that I love taking photos since kid when you took yout film to be revealed on analogic photos. back in 2000 in my work we already had a digital camera. I was one of the first people kn my town to buy a digital camera. maybe thats why also I got more addicted to insta than fb or twitter. anyway I dont need to see that photos every day. want to have that as a time capsule. maybe adding a photo every anniversary or long trip as people kept their paper albums back then